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Secondary education

Connect with other parents whose children are starting secondary school on this forum.

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346 replies

grovel · 15/02/2013 22:50

I just loved being number 1000. Such power!

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seeker · 17/02/2013 15:15

Time to give up, I think. To anyone reading this, please don't worry. Pugsandseals has completely misunderstood the system- if whqt she says happened actually happened at her school, it is the only school in the country it happened in. Nowhere else are GCSE predictions made on EFYS, KSI SATs or anything else that happens in primary school. KS2 SATs might have an impact on Year 7 sets, but even then, secondary schools generally test and reset after the fist year. And any school which did follow pug's ideas would fail it's OFSTED. And would have done under the old framework as well.

teacherwith2kids · 17/02/2013 15:15

Again, I am sorry that YOUR DD'S SCHOOL did not have those things.

However, to condemn an entire system based on one school is not the position of a rational person....

teacherwith2kids · 17/02/2013 15:16

(As is the wish to change from tests to teacher assessment if the results you don't like are produced by tests, or the other way if they were based on teacher assessments. Bizarre, and irrational, as i say)

pugsandseals · 17/02/2013 15:19

As I said before Seeker, this school has never had an inspection under it's current head. The outstanding it currently has is from the time of the old head (don't get how that works but still)

seeker · 17/02/2013 15:20

One last time, pugs. Are you prepared to accept that your/ the head's interpretation of the system was wrong?

pugsandseals · 17/02/2013 15:20

Teacher - I am only suggesting that the system does not work to the advantage of all in it. There are some losers. Is that not a fair assumption?

pugsandseals · 17/02/2013 15:22

Seeker - I thought it was obvious that I did not agree with the way the school was working. And how can I say a system is perfect when my main experience of it is poor?

seeker · 17/02/2013 15:22

But the system as you describe is not they system as it is. Or was.

teacherwith2kids · 17/02/2013 15:23

The think is, Pugs, based on your complete misunderstanding of how KS1 SATs work, of how EYFS profiles work, and of how secondary / high schools predict GCSE levels, I'm not entirely convinced that you understood the system in operation at your DD's earlier school - and therefore am not going to spend any more of my Sunday explaining how bad it might have been or how Ofsted might have seen it had it (by any remote chance) actually operated as you have supposed.

That does not stop me being sorry that your DD did not thrive there. The school where DS did not thrive, btw, crashed from 'Good with outstanding features' to 'Special measures' within a singe 3 year Ofsted cycle...

seeker · 17/02/2013 15:23

You don't have to say the system is perfect. It would be good if you accepted that what you have described is not the system.

Yellowtip · 17/02/2013 15:25

Surely getting up to the Merchant Bankers Table 1 would have been a reward to strive for? Emancipation and shedding the shackles of Also Rans Table 2?

DD4 (also Y6) has never got more than one of these certificates pugs (except the mandatory 'settling in beautifully' one). She knows the purpose of them in her school is to boost the lower achievers and she's pretty mellow about that. She's furiously competitive despite that sort of stuff and always seems to try. I wouldn't say the school has failed her despite there having been very little outward encouragement. Parents and peer group and all sorts of other factors have to go into the mix too. That probably includes parental attitudes to the school. I guess she may have picked up on the fact that you were at odds with the school, so it could have rubbed off. My policy throughout my DCs schooling has always been to avoid confrontation and never to pester the schools.

pugsandseals · 17/02/2013 15:26

I can only comment on personal experiences, the same as anybody else here.

teacherwith2kids · 17/02/2013 15:26

One more time, Pugs - the school that your daughter was in did not suit her, and she did not thrive there as well as you might like, and it appears at the moment that her current school suits her better.

None of that has anything to do with 'a system' or 'a sector', just 2 individual schools.

teacherwith2kids · 17/02/2013 15:29

My children have always known that every child in their school gets 1 certificate. If you get more than 1 during your time there it is, as my daughter put it 'because if you find it harder to behave or harder to do your work, sometimes you need more encouragement'....

pugsandseals · 17/02/2013 15:29

So because your dd survived the general lack of encouragement & constantly rewarding the poor achievers that means any child can? That would be one sweeping generalisation!

pugsandseals · 17/02/2013 15:30

That was for yellow tip btw

seeker · 17/02/2013 15:31

Even when everybody says you've misunderstood?

teacherwith2kids · 17/02/2013 15:31

No - but she is bright enough to know that there is 'a system', to articulate it, and to understand why the grown-ups around her use it in the way that they do. And as she also says 'well, I get lots of house points and ticks and nice comments on my work, and that's my reward'.

Yellowtip · 17/02/2013 15:32

pugs I'm off now too but you do appear to be a great generalizer from limited personal experience, which is the problem. And some people here (teacher for example) have very broad knowledge of the system. I think seeker may have previously mentioned that she was a primary governor too?

teacherwith2kids · 17/02/2013 15:32

You do seem to .... generalise... from your personal experience a little widely, though... the posters who have challenged you on here have experience of significantly more schools from different perspectives.

pugsandseals · 17/02/2013 15:34

Seeker - I can assure you that I can find lots of local people who would agree with me about how our local system works. Some have kids who have joined dd at her new school. Why should I believe that me & lots of other local parents are all wrong about our local system?

Yellowtip · 17/02/2013 15:37

pugs DD4 and I have mentioned these weekly certificates early on and I explained how they worked and said don't worry; that if she started to get them then she should worry. It was a vague joke but it nipped any problem in the bud. What was your approach: to confront the teacher? To show her how gutted you were? There are things you can do. And in fact I quite like the idea of the lower achievers getting a boost. I reckon they need it more than the kids like DD4.

seeker · 17/02/2013 15:39

But there can't be a "local" system! Mind you, I'm pleased you are not longer saying this applies nationally

Go on, at least tell us where you're talking about.

pugsandseals · 17/02/2013 15:42

Yellowtip - dd has a very strong mind & once she has decided who gets the rewards & why there is little I can do to change that!
I would appreciate if assumptions were not made about me. I was certainly never one of the parents always on the teachers back. Maybe that was the problem, I didn't fight hard enough!

seeker · 17/02/2013 15:45

I can see where she got her stubborn streak from!

Admitting when you are wrong is a very strong minded thing to do, you know.....