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Oh groovee I'm so sorry.

@Groovee I’m so sorry to hear. 💐

@Groovee I am thinking of you and hoping that you have plenty of support IRL. Sending hugs.

Groovee so sorry, fingers crossed for the days ahead.

Rookie I definitely think people are tried of it.
Rightly or wrongly I met a friend in the park yesterday. We never met the whole of last year, work, shifts, holidays, lockdown. I'm not really prepared to go another 6 mths without meeting.

Oh my goodness I'm so sorry Groovee . I hope he gets treatment quickly.

Oh @Groovee what an awful worry. Great that he's in the hands of the right people.

Thinking of you Groovee. He's on good hands and they'll be taking good care of him I'm sure

Sorry meant to type in good hands.

@groovee your family really has had a run of bad luck. I'm sorry

 for you @Groovee and sending best wishes for mr g. I understand that work will be a distraction but hope you can discuss with someone in case you need some time for yourself

I'm so sorry to hear that grovee

@Groovee - so sorry to hear that.

good they've got a plan, and also good to keep yourself busy. hope your DH is coping with being so isolated at a time like this

@Groovee wish you all the best. 🙏🏼

@Groovee thoughts and prayers with you and your DH

Really sorry to hear your news @groovee. The important thing here is that your DH is not your Dad. There is no reason that the outcome will be the same. You need to keep your thinking head on and make sure that you listen well to all conversations, that can ne hard. there is nothing wrong with asking if you/your DH can record any conversations with the consultants so you can listen carefully to them later. You want to feel as in control of the diagnostic/treatment "process" as you can.

You don't need to come back and share anything if you don't want to but we are all here with you as best we can regardless. We might not ask how things are everyday, but guaranteed we will be thinking about you everyday.

Thinking of you @Groovee x

@Groovee that is tough. Fingers crossed for very quick treatment plan. I would have a low threshold for stopping working if you need to. Other things to consider is if you have critical illness cover.
Thinking of you, the covid restrictions make things so much more difficult

I'm sorry groovee, I hope you're doing okay and have some rl support too.

Take care of yourself too.

Shite. I'm so sorry to hear that groovee. What an absolute nightmare. And yes, what others have said about taking care of yourself.

Thinking of you @Groovee

I’m so sorry to read that groovee

You’re probably running on adrenaline but it’s exhausting so please try to slow down enough to take care of yourself

Grovee much love sent to you

Thanks everyone. I have some amazing real life support. Work have been amazing too. I don't normally have one thing after the other like this.

I'm shocked about dh as he's very rarely ill. The gp said the other day, the last time you were here was 2015 (virus) 2008 (vasectomy) 1998 (electrocuted himself). He's had his moment but said he was pleased to see me. Just a waiting game.

Delurking to say sorry to hear your news @Groovee 💐

@Groovee gosh, what a shock. Have a virtual hug