I think that's part of the issue though @Bikingbear. It's hard enough to even talk at a societal level about life expectancy issues in relation to covid never mind when we start talking about individuals.
Of course those of us with elderly and vulnerable relatives and friends absolutely want to protect them and it's really sad when they die. However, the vast majority of deaths have occurred in the population who already had a DNR or who were already at or over the normal life expectancy. Also being blunt in saying that we have fucked up the economy and the future of our youth in the main to protect people who may have died from flu or any other cause this year or might have made it another winter.
I really get that it's hard and it's really hard to lose anyone, neither DH or I have any parents and we've also lost 4 siblings between us. None of those from covid but really suspect that BiLs recent cancer death was as a result of late identification and lack of treatment.
You'll all think i am a really hard cow now, but as I say, if you look at a societal level rather than thinking about our lovely elderly relatives who we'd want to live forever, it becomes a different view to the choices we might be making.
There is also the point that many who we sought to protect would be happier enjoying the love and contact from their families in the final months that they may have, covid or no covid.