Madameblobby - I cant disagree with you. But I'm pretty sure when the government decided its approach it was balancing expert advice against what it thought voters would want or tolerate. I'm not a fan of either government. But had lockdown happened in January, the public would have probably gone nuts. I wouldn't have, because I have scientists in my family.
I don't really know what to say to you. From my perspective, as shit as things are now, I have no doubt they could get a LOT shittier in ways we can't even imagine. This is my lived experience: I come from a failed state.
And one person losing their job will seem trivial to another losing their father to a disease. Etc.
Bluntly, I suppose my view is 'It is what it is'. I can't change it. Nor can the government. The virus is like death - awful, ever present and uncompromising. I accept it. I accept my life won't be 'normal'. But I need to stay calm and sane for my family. I need to steer my children through this.
We are flat broke, my MIL is in hospital and we can't see her, DH is vulnerable, and worst of all, I may never see my family ever again (still in the failed state with no healthcare). I can't dwell on this. I need to just keep on keeping on.
I believe in the efforts my scientist family members are making - working their arses off to try find a way forward. I know how important this is to them and how committed they are.