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Is anyone here under 45 and retired?

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Abba123 · 01/02/2023 09:13

In truth, I’m under 40.

I worked for my husband, the business did very well and then we had children and I became a full-time mum.

Then they all started school full-time and I was essentially retired.

I could have pick up some hours working for my husband but I don’t need to and it’s boring.

If I do take a paid position I’d actually be worse off unless I did so many hours that I’d miss out on the little that I do get to see my children.

I’ve done some courses and qualified for various professions that I could do in a voluntary role but again I have the conflict within myself that I could be putting that time into being the perfect housewife.

Oh I find everything boring.

No freedom but lots of time.

I see other mums quite happily spending this time on working on looking beautiful at the gym and spa... Pfft.

Is there anyone in this terribly privileged quagmire?

OP posts:
Notplayingball · 07/02/2023 10:05

brokenarmabroad · 07/02/2023 06:59

The implication that a SAHM is not interesting enough to be worth talking to is deeply unpleasant. If you honestly cannot think a single possible topic of conversation that doesn't revolve around work it says more about you than her.

Agreed. There's more to life than work!

gingercat02 · 07/02/2023 10:33

You aren't retired OP. You are a SAHP or old fashioned housewife! My SiL hasn't worked since her kids were born, they are now 19 and 21 she doesn't say she is retired!

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