I am online dating. I was due to meet someone for the first time from OLD this evening but over the course of the day he made me feel a bit uncomfortable to the point that i decided not to go on the date and told him so. I got a Torrent of abuse from him about how I was a small, pathetic person and how i should "watch my back" for deciding not to come and "leading him on. "
I didn't reply and left my phone on airplane mode. I have just switched it back on to find a load of videos of him having (seemingly forcing) sex acts on another woman, telling me I am “missing out” and "somebody else took your spot." I can literally see her face and everything.
I feel terrified by it. Plus I feel he has personal photos of me (not naked ones just normal ones) and he has our exchange of getting to know each other leading up to this date where I am talking about my divorce etc and where I live (general area not specific house.)
Is this just one of those things that happens in OLD or is this exceptional and I need to do something about it, like tell the police? I have no sense of proportion as this is one of my first experiences.