DH has a very high sex drive (mine is non existant but I do try) and we normally have sex around every 2 days but I am being constantly pressured about it all day every day. If we don't have sex EVERY night he goes off in a mood saying there is "obviously" something bothering me etc and I feel under constant pressure to have sex. Some nights he goes on and on and won't let me go to sleep until I agree. He pesters me, keeps groping me, keeps trying to turn me around to face him etc and this can go on for hours. He's even woken me up in the middle of the night doing it before. Last night was actually quite upsetting because I told him I just wanted to go to sleep and he wouldn't let and was literally on top of me pulling my legs apart etc and he was being quite rough. He never actually penetrated me but he did force his head in between my legs etc. He blamed it on the drink this morning but he'd only had about 2.
I dread every night because I know its going to turn into a constant battle for sex. It causes friction and tension because I feel like if I say no, I'M the one starting the argument. Its got to the point where I actually look forward to being on my period, its such a relief when it comes on because I know I have a few days "break" from it all but even then sometimes he'll start.
I honestly feel like a dog on heat that has been trapped with a stud dog.
He says he "can't help it" but it is driving me insane. I just want to be left alone for a while. I mean, I know I have a shit sex drive and always have (even with previous partners) but what is a "reasonable" gap in between sex?