Am I a lesbian???

[charlotte89]

Is it natural to fantise about girls. I have a male partner of 4yrs who i love dearly, but I tend to think about girls. I am confussed, I have never done anything with a girl, I think its just the thoughts of experiancing, please help!!!

I would say that if you are confussed, you must be a lesbian,

Are you a lesbian???

I am married and as far as I know, I'm not gay. I find women much more attractive than men. When I am out and about, I find that I watch women more than I do men. I love the way they dress, smell, talk and move. They feature often in my sexual fantasies (maybe should have namechanged for this...oh bugger that) and I find looking at pictures of girls having a go, much more titillating than men doing the same thing to a woman. I did, when I was in my early twenties, experiment a bit, but came away with the conclusion that although I find the fairer sex absolutely lovely, that I prefer to spend the physical side of my life with a man.

Sexuality is not black and white. There are lots of in betweens.

I hail from the Island of Lesbos

Does that count ?

I can categorically confirm you are a lesbian, go in peace my child.

Charlotte, do you mind me asking, are you the same person who was discussing early menopause, miscarriage and attention-seeking problems a while back? If not, sorry, just wondered if it were the same person.

Anyway: if you are attracted to your male partner, I don't see a problem. I understand that women tend to find sexual fantasies erotic, whatever the gender of the participants may be, so it is normal to fantasize like this.

@ AF

Do you want to have sex with women and not men?

Do you wear friendship bracelets and waistcoats?

Do you play the guitar?

Are you an Indigo Girls fan?

If yes then you are, without doubt, a lesbian.

Do you think it might be a spelling problem? Because if you fantasise about grills, you might be a bit George Foreman.

Do you doubt me, Ali ?

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I'm assuming you've come on here wanting us all to share our lesbian experiences then?

op - if you dont know how are we meant to know?

shit, that didn't work

I was trying to copy and paste this

Oh I think it might be Tanga who's right, ok
I can categorically confirm you as "a bit George Foreman"
go in peace etc etc.

I echo ninajanes post exactly.

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oops did the same AF lol

Sexual orientation is more of a sliding scale than a binary thing. Basically most people are at least potentially bisexual, but as we live in a predominantly monogamist culture (ie we are expected to seek and find one partner and only have sex with that person) most people choose to identify as either straight or gay and choose partners accordingly.

I think she is in fact a pescatorian, not a lesbian, and she is in fact fantacising about gills, not grills.

it doesn't work waaaaaaaaaahhhhhh

Waaaaaaay too sensible a response SGB

I wish I was a Lesbian. Then I could get rid of DH.

any time, HE, any time

I need a wife, not a husband

In fact, I think a marriage should consist of two woman and one man.

Imagine, somebody to share cooking and baby care with, laundry and housework, managing the home, and also somebody to share your dh with....

Bliss.

I'm bi. Do you dream about girls? Don't laugh but one night I had sex with Lynne off Dog Borstal. And I've snogged Angelina Jolie. It depends whether you think a woman is attractive, as all women do, or you'd actually have sex. You're not having my Lynne though