what does this text mean?

[teenagecrush]

following a tread in chat which is now quite long ( omg ive fallen in love with somone ive never met)

ill sum up
we met, it went really well. Heard from him twice on the sat
sun he was online but ignored me
mon we chatted online on webcam for a few hours and he said he would email me something tue and we would talk about it.

email never arrived and ive not seen him onine since, though i know he is online ( can see him posting on a forum)

I text him a general hi message to which he didnt respond ( to be fair he is terrible at replying to texts, usually doesnt for at least hours if not days, not just with me, you can see from his facebook people always asking him to respond!) then sent another text later sort of asking what was going on.

then got- miss insecure

what is that meant to mean? that i should chill out and all is ok?????

or that he is a knob?

TeenageCrush

if you're mid thirties, surely there are things in your life more important that stressing over what this man says/doesn't say.

is your life a bit lacking in other areas, is that why you are placing such importance on him?
If so, pour your energy into addressing that, not worrying about what this man thinks or does.

Thought you was OP oooh i was so Happy for you, you don't need to explain to anyone about why you feel like this about him so don't feel guilty about acting like a Teenager, i'm still like this with,my man and i don't care what anyone else think's.

come on own up, which bodenite is this on the wind up?

im not special.
im not telling you his work as its a little bit out of the ordinary.

my child has nothing to do with it.

again i will say i agree with all of you. but im stuck on it all.

i have tried to stop it. i just cant. I know i need to stop it before it all crashes down around me becuse that is the only thing that can happen. i just dont know how to.

yes i recognise its the adrelline and fear and excitment and out of controlness that im addicted to. its an amazing high that when you come down off it you need another hit. vicous circle

I'm with defluff and shiney.

Is thesunshinesbrightly on the wind up?

Seem's i have been getting people's back's up today, so i have the right to remain silent.

Thats the 2nd time today thesunshinesbrightly has made me

usualsuspect - Are you following me

is he famous?

God, you sound like a total FOOL woman, I'm sorry. It doesn't make you less of a fool just because you admit you are being one.

He is a player of the highest order and you will NOT beat him at this game. You have already proved that by contacting him repeatedly. His text is confirmation of that - why can't you see it?

You see this arrogant sexy unpredictable player - in reality he is probably a mass of insecurities and psychological flaws - or else he wouldn't behave like this.

One day very soon when he has had his fun you are going to find yourself frozen out, just like that, forever.

I was thinking John Terry

Oh good heavens - do you even realise how pathetic you sound? And WTF is the business with his lawyer, what a total plonker.

And if you don't know what Jeremy Kyle is why did you immediately say that you don't watch TV? So you know enough to know it's a TV program - because all Pag said was that you were auditioning, nothing about TV.

I retract anything positive that I may have said about this on your thread the other day when you had just got back from meeting him.

he isnt a footballer.

he is not famous

and yes i sound like a fool

so don't BE a fool.

Drop him before he does it to you. That is all the satisfaction you will ever get out of this " relationship".

I don't believe the stuff about the lawyer. Sounds like BS. Sorry.

If this is not a wind up, you are acting as mental as each other. What benefit do you see from this relationship as I can't see any.

Shiney

Really need a wee now. I'm going.

look all you lot, there is an almost identical thread fanning the flames of this silly girl's fantasies

so that makes three in total (that I know of)

she is an attention-seeker in more ways than one and if this is real, it is a carcrash waiting to happen

the best thing to do, IMO, is ignore her and let her get on with it

what a fuck-up

TC, I'm afraid you really are sounding very very odd indeed, very damaged and not like any of us would want our parents to be...though I hope your child isn't bearing witness to any of this nonsense, or suffering in any way because of it.

The man is a narcissist, that's a recognised form of madness, so yes I would say he is insane. To go with this possibly dangerous.

I'd also bet you have been treated in a similar way in the past, maybe by a manipulative father, an absent father perhaps...it's a very common thing that being rejected and fucked about by your parents can set you up to find this kind of thing exciting, because very deep down your brain recognises manipulation and twattery as 'love'...a bit like a baby duck following the first thing it sees and thinking that is its mummy.

You're not to blame for the way you feel, and it must be hellish, but you are responsible for how you act, and getting involved with such a dangerous, abusive person is a Very Bad Idea on many levels.

You know this and what you need now is help to stop. Step up, please - your child needs you to put a stop to this shit, or you'll be teaching them this is how relationships work, and theyll go on to have the same sort as you.

You are spot on, Anyfucker. Did you get my email?

Let's go and hit AIBU, Shiney, with that kind of wisdom...