For those of us not getting any

[needabonk]

Name changed having just read the 'what do you do with the mess after sex' thread and ARRRRRGGHHHH I am soooo jealous!

I want sweaty, slidy sex!

I want the 'bother' of what to do with the goo. Panty pad? Fuck that, I'd happily swap my boring clean sheets for sleeping in the stickiness and feeling like I'd been thoroughly ravaged.

God I need a good bonk. And I know who I want it with too, (not DH, absolutely nothing going on there) but that's a whole other thread...

Trouble is, I am like a dog on heat. Any male with a pulse I'm seeing as potential shag material. I've tried sweaty workouts at the gym. I've tried fun on my own and I know I need a vibrator but what the fuck else can I do to calm my hormones down? And don't suggest sex with DH. I just do NOT want to.

Gagging for it and deeply jealous of you lot on that other thread!

I don't want to tell you off ineed , I genuinely feel for you.
I wish I could give your wife a damn good shake though!
The same goes for all the other selfish people who deny their partners the sheer joy of intimacy, not to mention the feeling of being wanted/desired.

Ineed - have you ever told your wife that you will leave if she continues to refuse to engage in any sort of help? It sounds as though she doesn't think you will ever leave her, or find someone else, so there is absolutely no incentive for her to change.

I greatly admire your stance on your vows and fidelity. To know that despite what is happening to you, infidelity is wrong, shows enormous character.

But that doesn't mean you have to stay.

At 52, you've got years and years ahead of you that should involve wonderful intimacy with someone. That person could be your wife, but not if she won't engage.