Would you find this revolthing....

[togoornot]

Dh had stomach bug over the weekend. I was putting washing in the machine earlier and found his boxers with poo inside them, like he just hadn't wiped properly sorry if TMI.

We've has this discussion before about him wiping properly afterwards and he said hi thinks maybe a bit gets left beacuase he' very hairy. Things have been fine sincce the las discussion.

I just feel repulsed. AIBU?

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Yes it is vile.

He would get no oral from me.

Is easy to wipe your arse. To be honest if he had a stomach bug he should have been extra vigilant and made sure that he hadn't left skiddies.

Yes. I would set said undies aside and tell him to wash them himself. Fine to have an accident, not fine to leave it for you to clean up.

i have no man living with me....thankfully.....so cant comment!!

but will watch thread to remind me WHY my home is manless!

Dirty git. Thoughtless, lazy tosser.

Leave baby wipes in the bathroom, he may get the message.

Didn't you post this a couple of weeks ago?

Or are there lots of shitty blokes out there?

Perhaps we need a skidmarks support thread.

If it was an "accident" i'd be understanding. But the marks just look to me like he's not wiped properly

Anyway, to answer your question...yes, I would.

Skidmarks support thread lol.

Dirty shityy sods. This would seriously annoy me.

Yes it is gross but then men don't seem to be that bothered by stuff like that like us women.
Agree with Getme he should have made doubly sure though. Thats the quickest way to spread a tummy bug. I had it a couple of weeks ago and its not nice

No didn't post about it couple of weeks ago!

gingeme
I completely disagree

some mone dont care

some women dont care

not all men are dicks

I've put said underwar in a carrier bag to give to him when he gets home....

I really do feel so repulsed by it...

Nah - my DP would be mortified with this.

He is able to wipe his arse. It is not some holy grail of male behaviour.

Plenty of men have good hygiene and manners. Just seems that plenty of men are dirty scroats as well.

lol @ the shitty blokes out there. reminds me too why some things are better without a man around (jaded emoticon)

1. you get the remote
2. no shitty pants

I'm pretty sure he'll turn it on me and say i'm just having a go at him for being ill

That is gross and it is not normal man behaviour.

TBH I would be tempted to bin the pants.

Yes, throw away the pants.

If he does turn it round say that you manage not to shit yourself when ill and leave dirty pants round for him to find.

Do not wash his pants again.

I was going to(have done that before) but i'm hoping that showing him might make it sink in more. To add to it , these were boxers i gave him as a present

I'm afraid that might be a deal-breaker for me, sorry!

Shitty, hairy, arse?

That is gross. If he is incapable of wiping his arse properly then he either needs further instruction on how to do it properly( I can understand how showing him might put a strain on your relationship) or needs to take total responsibility for washing his own, skiddy, pants.

If you are feeling kind and more accepting towards him then you can buy him kandoo wipes or some andrex moist to facilitate better wiping.

We do have wipes in the bathroom for ds - i've suggested before that he could use them!

My DH is (a little) hairy but uses those moist toilet wipes to make sure everything is clean... suggest yours does the same!
And I would throw away the pants if they were like that too

and he said?

agreed it would help. Sure he hasn't used them though

arf at getorfmyland's

''If he does turn it round say that you manage not to shit yourself when ill and leave dirty pants round for him to find.''!!!!!!!!

sorry op, it is minging, but i just love some of the things these ladies have written.