Yesterday DH came home from work and said "have you got much tidying up done today?" and glanced around the house.
He's on at me constantly about the house. I'm not houseproud and never have been. He knew this when we got together but i do keep it respectable and every now and again I'll have a mass do and blitz everything.
But when he comes home and says stuff like this it makes me feel like he's checking up/judging/keeping an eye on me.
I feel like I have to live up to his standards all the time.
How would you have reacted? honestly?