hi
im 20 and nearly 35weeks pregnant, my partner is 23, since about this time last yr iv had to get my partner out of bed to go to work. this wasnt a problem a yr ago as i had to get up for college but since i had to quit college in may iv had to wake him up for work. i think since then he's been on time for work 5% of the time. from may - august i lived with my parents so it was understood it was my responsibilty to get him up in the morning as he was sleeping over so wasnt usually late, but since august iv told him now we live on our own he has to set his alarm and get up, did this work? did it hell! he turns off his alarm and goes back to sleep! the alarm wakes me up so i kick him to get him up, his response is either "yes im awake" or "ok" then goes back to sleep, i usually hav to wake him up between 10-11am, hes supposed to be at work for 9! he works for his mum as her carer so he gets away with it. now im in late pregnancy im unable to sleep, i dont usually get to sleep until 4-6am and having to physically wake my partner up every mornin is draining me, im that tired now i dont even have the energy to eat
iv spoken to him about it and all he says is "yes ill get up" but then doesnt.
the only day he gets off is sundays and he dont wake up until 1-2pm so im scared if i dontcwake him up he wont get up until then and he loses his job, if that happens then we'd be homeless at it takes a full time job to afford this house.
iv had to do an all nighter because the pram is being delivered between 7am-3pm And i no full well he wont get up for it.
my baby is breach and will probs have to have a c-section, i dread to think what he'll be like while and after im in hospital as i wont be able to kick him out of bed!
any advice pls??
thnx x