Sex after childbirth - where,when, how long and HOW?

[northstar]

Would genuinely appreciate some advice on this, as it's time to get back in the saddle.
One minute I am afraid it will hurt or damage something, the next minute I'm afraid it won't and it'll be like waving a stick in a bucket iykwim?

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i did used to have a different name but i dont think weve chatted.

open a bar and you can buy me a drink

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ive just put a post up for you!

gonna keep bumping it til you answer me LOL

Quick update - for the record - did the deed the night i posted this question, thanx for all your encouragement folks! Everything was and , so anyone reading this and about to bite the bullet GO FOR IT, especially all my friends on the maybabies thread!

well with my first husband he would of said not till you wanted another child as this is what it was foras you can imagine divorse was on the cards