So totally devastated- please help me

[UtterlyBereft]

I have found this site after being so impressed by accounts of it in the press, and after looking around and seeing how supportive you all seem to be I am reaching out for a way through this pain.

I have never known hurt like this before- I was one of those people who thought love would last forever. I was wrong. Richard has left me, and I'm pretty sure he has moved in with the woman door. I don't know what I'm going to do...

Should I take his belongings round and leave them on the doorstep? I shouldn't have let him out of my sight- it's all my fault

no, not wrong BOF UB

I am feline very sorry for ya

Oh Reality, I am so grateful for your kindness. Do you have an attractive pussy?

lol. this has cheered me up no end

Utterly - not sure what is going on here but can I suggest that you start a new thread and that we start again on what's happening/what you're feeling?

LOL. You ladies are sooo smutty.
Too much for an innocent, pure lass like me

pmsl

Utterly - after many years of disappointed waiting for affections I buried my pussy in the back garden.

Knowing there will be no more banging on my flaps at all hours of the night is lonely sometimes but after he started introducing small animals through them when we weren't looking, something had to change.

I think I shall open some wine and watch some hoe movies of us in happier times now, everyone. Thank you so much. I may pop back from time to time for more support if that's ok? Perhaps I will share the very sad story of dear Gere's untimely demise too when I am feeling stronger...Goodnight you wonderful lovely ladies of Mumsnet, bless you all!

Home movies, sorry. Richard was never for sale, I can at least take comfort in that.

girls....its bumsex tomorrow
so no more talk of back-flaps tonite please

Utterly don't go. Do you know the best way of winning him back might be by naming and shaming him? Why don't you get some posters made with his photo and stick them on lamp posts in the area?

Is his nickname dick? Cos he sounds like one.

You poor thing. Here is the number for the Samaritans. You might want to talk to your social worker (if you don't have one, get one).....erm, what else? Oh yes, counselling, a doctors appointment and painkillers might help. Close the bank accounts and kick him to the kerb.

I will think of other stuff that might help.

Here, have a jam ring in the mean time, the sugar will be help lift your mood.