So totally devastated- please help me

[UtterlyBereft]

I have found this site after being so impressed by accounts of it in the press, and after looking around and seeing how supportive you all seem to be I am reaching out for a way through this pain.

I have never known hurt like this before- I was one of those people who thought love would last forever. I was wrong. Richard has left me, and I'm pretty sure he has moved in with the woman door. I don't know what I'm going to do...

Should I take his belongings round and leave them on the doorstep? I shouldn't have let him out of my sight- it's all my fault

Do I know you in real life Shineon?

Are you the woman next door?

Did Richard I and II run away too?

Chin up OP, I'm sure you'll soon be feline fine.

Does she have her own flap? I would wait until I saw Richard go out and then seal it up with superglue. That'll show her, the hussy.

Why all the jokes? Can't you see my pain?

She's got flaps front and back, Mollie. They are a right state. But he has been enticed noetheless.

Maybe you need to make Rihard jealous? Is there another male in the neighbourhood you could offer to care for?

she takes it up the backflap too ?

ohhh, stone her !!

Sounds like you'll need a lot of glue. Making him jealous (and thereby realise what he is missing) might be what you need.

Just having a bitofun, utterly.

Has he strayed before or is this is first time?

oh dear, i don't know who i want to comfort more, the OP or realitybites.

I really gotta go to bed now

put us outta our misery, eh ?

Come on Utterly you need to get back in the game! Dab something delicious behind your ears (and in your sadly inferior cleavage) and go out into the street and find yourself a new fella!! Spoil yourself with some Sheba maybe?

You lot is mental

I just wanted to experience the kindness that has been extended to other posters, no matter how improbable, Anyfucker. Is that so very wrong?

Also have to go to bed - goodnight Utterly / BOF (?)

oh utterly....you are bonkers though Perhaps you've been at the cat nip too much this evening?

Goodnight ladies- I am glad you have recognised a kindred spirit and been so understanding