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He has left me

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bigissue · 05/06/2005 14:09

And the children. Am broke and carless but currently don't give a fucking toss. So nice not to have the rows and stress.

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hotmummy · 05/06/2005 21:09

I will have a quick check for you

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bigissue · 05/06/2005 21:10

It is in my msn name....

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SenoraPostrophe · 05/06/2005 21:10

dunno. go for a gmail/yahoo one instead

hotmummy · 05/06/2005 21:12

have you got an hotmail.co.uk or .com. Which ever you have open another using the other variety, I am just going to check that this works for you so you don't have to give yourselfaway

hotmummy · 05/06/2005 21:26

when you set it up the only way I can see it working is you will have to use a totally bogus name to open the account like joe bloggs and bogus post code (SP10 3AL old school!!)
Sorry not much help abit of a baby at all this techy stuff!!!.

galaxy · 05/06/2005 21:30

No idea who you are but just wanted to let you know I'm sorry that this has happened to you.

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bigissue · 05/06/2005 21:31

New mail address kEEPS blocking me. Still hasnt erplied.
Not having very successufl evening here.

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hotmummy · 05/06/2005 21:36

what does it keep blocking are other people blocking you let them know on here what msn name you are using for tonight then they should allow you they could be blocking you from there end

hotmummy · 05/06/2005 21:37

I will wait a little longer before going to bed so I know you can speak to people privatley. (We are 2hrs ahead)

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bigissue · 05/06/2005 21:37

Keeps coming up server for site not available when i try to log in to new yahoo thing.

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hotmummy · 05/06/2005 21:39

have you tried the nes msn one
co.uk if you are already using .com or vice versa

sorry I cant be of more help

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bigissue · 05/06/2005 21:42

Keeps asking me to transfer my existing address. Am going to fgive up.

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hotmummy · 05/06/2005 21:47

OK sorry, I set up a new one in co.uk to try it out for you from the msn sign in page before isigned in and it didn't link the two up.

Once again sorry I couldn't be of more help.

Hope uyou sort things out xxx

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bigissue · 05/06/2005 21:48

Thank you hotmummy
x

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ScrewballMuppet · 05/06/2005 21:50

Can you not set up an email address with ntl and then use that to set up new email account or is it that one that says to transfer?

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bigissue · 05/06/2005 21:55

Going to give up on the chat front - cant open the draw a pig either.

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hotmummy · 05/06/2005 21:59

is there no one in RL you can chat too. I know when DD dad left me I really needed someone with mew for a chat etc before i went to ebd that night I just didn't ewant to be alone. Eveb if no one can come round is there someoneyou can phone and chat with or someone you trust won't say who you are and contact them via msn on a private talk rather than a group chat.
xxx

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bigissue · 05/06/2005 22:00

Have got v supportive neighbour and a friend who knowsant . Dont feel like talking. Cant believe he is doing this and that he hasnt rung.

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hotmummy · 05/06/2005 22:01

Rant a bit more on here if it will help. I don't want to go and leave you whilst youare feelijng so upset (understandably).

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bigissue · 05/06/2005 22:02

I just want him to come home. Before his job changed we had a brilliant marriage with ups and downs but really strong and cool. I cant believe he has changed and if he is having a breakdown, how far will all this go?

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hotmummy · 05/06/2005 22:03

bless you, I really don't know what more advisce I can give to help. Do you just wan this thread to close for a bit or do you want to carry on typing.

I know it is hard but please put your phone in a drawer then check in the morning.

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bigissue · 05/06/2005 22:04

I have to go lock up and will come back and look at msnt and my phone.

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hotmummy · 05/06/2005 22:06

I am crying for you now, I now how upset you are (well can imagine from past) and what you are going through. I suppose you really don't feel like going to sleep. It is so hard what to suggest as phoning him at the moment will be very hard on you if he doesn't answer etc.

Is he on any medication for his breakdown.
Sorry but do you know where he has gone!! is there anyone you can talk to who is mutual in this for the pair of you?

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bigissue · 05/06/2005 22:35

He thinks that it is just us that is wrong - he cannot see it is him and the huge stress. He needs pills or a smack on the head.

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bigissue · 05/06/2005 22:56

Is anyone there?

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