I'm worried about my DH. He has bought himself a Furry costume and wants me call him Foxy!

[PlushieLover]

I have namechanged as I am so embarrassed.

I was totally shocked. He says I only have to dress up too if I want to - no pressure, but he would love it if I would groom him and stroke his furry tail.

I don't know what to do. I think I'd almost prefer it if he wanted to wear my clothes rather than get kitted up like Basil Brush!

I am so anxious about tonight. Normally we have a bottle of wine and get a bit amorous on a Friday night. He phoned earlier and suggested getting the "cubs" to bed early tonight. I normally wouldn't mind a bit of "wild animal" sex but this wasn't quite what I was thinking of.

Is he a pervert? What shall I do?

Ughh - anal stretching - gross - and they end up with a SQUARE buthole!

This was all in the middle of the day - what are you all like when you've had a drink!!! Has Friday night started early?!?!

Well no-one has yet given me any advice about how to approach bedtime! I've learnt a lot about other people's sexual deviations though!

plushie - what advice. just a blooming costume.

ok... little different from normal erotic wear.... but bugger it... get on with it and give it a bash.

try everything once as i say. if you enjoy it do it again... if not... next experiment is your choosing

Um, if you stroke his furry tail for long enough, maybe he'll drop off. Or something.

How are you getting on? Is it Foxy? It's a bit chilly tonight, so having something fluffy to cuddle up to might be good. But then again DH often doesn't shave at the weekend and whiskers are't always good.

Snort

I've just checked out some of the earlier links! You should be ashamed!

Hope its not a furry penguin!

Are penguins furry?

There's no way I would indulge in something that I thought was weird... so I would just flatly say no.

yeah, me too, posie.

Unless the price was right

That is a weird one. Lots of people have fetishes. Shame that the festish people didn't know this earlier and pair off at the festish club for whatever kink they have.

Really difficult when that gets introduced to your relationship at a late stage. I must admit the whole Cos-play scene just seems weird and makes S&M seem normal.

But perhaps by understanding why he is interested in it may make it easier. The grooming costume thing could be replaced by just giving each other massages...

I discussed this with DH, and he said he would really like it if I dressed like this !

I really don't think pink is my colour!

Before bedtime I would simply explain that you feel uncomfortable with the whole thing. This is just the same as any other more 'adventurous' bedtime choice, whether it be uniforms, strap ons or threesomes. Sex is supposed to be fun for both and unless you're a complete prude most people have a varied sex life, additions like furry costumes have to be something you both enjoy. I can't think he'd want to do it if you told him you found it both weird and hilarious but by no means did it turn you on.

I quite fancy a threesome - but with brad Pitt and George clooney! Somehow I don't think dh would be in favour. Well maybe if angelina came too....

ah but Portofino- did you hear Frank Skinner on the radio tother day talking about threesomes? He said it was ok...but he wasn't too keen on the clashing of heads. Or the whispering

Porto, that must be a fivesome

Oh no - talking wouldn't be allowed! They would be FAR too busy!