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Would you be hurt by this comment....?

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heisanidiot · 24/02/2009 19:15

Alright Dh and I are trying to spice up our sex life (well I'm trying harder). By accident I hurt his "manhood"...I swear it was really an accident...He said to me arrrrght, I'll make you a drawing of how to do it properly !! in a very nasty tone of voice. He really hurt my feelings...did I overreact ?

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compo · 24/02/2009 19:16

people say things in the heat of the moment and when they are in pain, I'd let it go tbh

heisanidiot · 24/02/2009 19:16

Forgot to say I have changed name

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heisanidiot · 24/02/2009 19:17

Really but cant help feeling humiliated...fucking hell he's no sex god

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MadamDeathstare · 24/02/2009 19:18

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poopscoop · 24/02/2009 19:18

just do the same to him. Get your own drawing ready and if he gives you one, then you an present him with your swapsy saying 'while we are on the subject.....'

That should shut him up

LynetteScavo · 24/02/2009 19:19

The poor bloke was in sever pain. Don't feel too hurt.

What exactly were you doing???

heisanidiot · 24/02/2009 19:21

Good one poopscoop ! FYI..it was not a bj, I was just on the top of him...I lost balance and up to him I almost broke ermmm his "manhood"...it was an accident for god sake !

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heisanidiot · 24/02/2009 19:23

He's fucking ungrateful... I could be doing nothing let him doing all the work

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marie1979 · 24/02/2009 19:28

i totally agree id make him beg for it what an ass

poopscoop · 24/02/2009 19:30

what an ass, whose ass are you talking about???!!!

Flightattendant27 · 24/02/2009 19:32

Sounds nasty for what you did tbh. I'd be hurt but also worried he didn't like me very much or care whether I was trying to please him or not.

Not a great basis for a realtionship.

OrmIrian · 24/02/2009 19:34

Well tell him you won't be touching it again. That should do it

Nabster · 24/02/2009 19:34

I wouldn't let it go.

I would tell him you are sorry for accidently hurting him but he deliberately hurt your feelings.

Nighbynight · 24/02/2009 19:36

Let what go, nabster?

KerryMumbles · 24/02/2009 19:37

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StayOutOfTheLight · 24/02/2009 19:58

pmsl I have done this before, nearly snapped it

But he was out of order.

AnyFucker · 24/02/2009 20:06

it sounds an un-necessarily nasty comment from this bloke

but have you seen how blokes react when their cock is threatened?? totally OTT

unless he is an abusive fuckwit at other times, I would apologise once more, cut him some slack and then if he does it again tell him to shut the fuck up

princessmel · 24/02/2009 20:08

Just trying to work out how he'd draw the perfect blow job/hand job.

I'd be upset too.

Blondeshavemorefun · 24/02/2009 20:20

he may have been in pain but he was rude

i would say to him till he is less rude he can do it his self

AnyFucker · 24/02/2009 20:22

mel, it wasn't hand job or a blow job

poshwellies · 24/02/2009 20:38

Would tell him that he could go fuck himself!

princessmel · 24/02/2009 20:39

Oh ok AF. How do you know? (puzzled)

AnyFucker · 24/02/2009 20:47

lol mel, she said so further up the thread

she was on top and overbalanced onto his nob {grin]

I wasn't there, you understand

myfeethurt · 24/02/2009 20:50

i have done this before and my partner wasn't so rude although i could tell he was in a lot of pain.. Can it really snap do you think?