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Just read on another thread that sex.....

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brazenhussy · 22/02/2009 21:51

on a full bladder isn't nice!

Am I alone in thinking that sex on a full bladder is amazing and makes for huge intense orgasms?

I hope I'm not the only one because i couldn't be bothered to namechange

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solidgoldbullet4myvalentine · 22/02/2009 21:55

Some people like it a lot that way. I would only advise that sometimes over-vigorous thrusting againsta full bladder isn't a good idea and can give you cystitis, and also there is always a chance that you will wet the bed.

ElfOnTheTopShelf · 22/02/2009 21:57

Seriously?
I'm always terrified I'd wet the bed!!

prettyfly1 · 22/02/2009 21:57

OMG - How would you not pee yourself.

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brazenhussy · 22/02/2009 22:02

Never felt like I was gonna pee myself - when we start to..well, you know, the feeling of needing to wee turns into a pleasurable orgasmic sensation.

solidgoldbullet4myvalentine - thank you for the warning but it's a chance I am prepared to take as I have luckily never had cystitis

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DumbledoresGirl · 22/02/2009 22:03

If you read Nancy Friday you learn a lot of useful stuff.

Apparently some women can orgasm while weeing.

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brazenhussy · 22/02/2009 22:11

I once has a boyfriend who told me it would really turn him on if we had sex with me on top and started I to wee as I rode him

Well, ever eager to please; I tried and tried but just couldn't so I thought that maybe women had some inbuilt mechanism like men do that stop them weeing and orgamsing at the same time (can you tell I have no actual medical knowledge? )

I really must get hold of some Nancy Friday - that name comes up all the time on here

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NotQuiteCockney · 22/02/2009 22:15

Um, do you mean 'can orgasm while weeing'? Or 'can ejaculate from the urethra, a different substance from uring'?

PersephoneSnape · 22/02/2009 22:17

after three Dcs i wee before i leave the house and before going to sleep. if sex combines those options, i will empty bladder beforehand

DumbledoresGirl · 22/02/2009 22:18

Is that to me NQC? I can't remember exactly. I read My Secret Garden and I know there was stuff in it about masturbating to the point of orgasm and then weeing and the orgasm was magnified or something, but to tell you the truth, that particular act was not my favourite part of the book. I can recount some of the fantasies precisely because I have read them a million times, but not that part.

angelene · 22/02/2009 22:26

Sex on a full bladder does make for a better orgasm, but you need to wee afterwards in case of cysitus or UTI or whatever.

Unfortunately, in my house we have a downstairs bathroom so I have to traipse through the house in the cold, instead of just falling asleep in that lovely post-sex glow

CuddlyKelpieFucker · 22/02/2009 22:28

It might be the 'For One Night Only' namechange that is bringing out the 'confessions of a filthy slut' in me but...I have never dared sex on a full bladder since I pissed myself during orgasm - it was a particularly fabulous one but was overshadowed for me by the pissing ones-self part.
I couldn't maintain bladder control and this was pre-childbirth so rest assured I will never test my control again.

Thank you and goodnight.

ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 22/02/2009 22:59

Are you sure it was wee? Could have been ejaculation...it happened to me once, definitely not wee and there was loads of it....with a one night stand, very

Deemented · 22/02/2009 23:18

Could well have been a female ejaculation, CKF - if it was i'd have made him sleep in the wet patch....

AnyFucker · 23/02/2009 12:03

may not have been wee......

prettyfly1 · 23/02/2009 13:21

very embarassed to admit this but when i was pg orgasm always made me wee and they were way more intense. I dont think my dh woudl appreciate a post coital golden shower tho.

MrsMattie · 23/02/2009 13:23

Nah, I hate that full bladder feeling and sometimes get cystitis if I don't empty my bladder beforehand.

Blondeshavemorefun · 23/02/2009 14:25

i find sex is uncomfortable if i need a wee and find it hard to orgasm

dh is used to us getting down to it, then me saying, i need a wee

quick dash and then life is so much better

also i do suffer from cystitis as this would just bring it on

themildmanneredjanitor · 23/02/2009 14:27

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prettyfly1 · 23/02/2009 14:28

really? I need to wee almost instantly, in fact it is slightly annoying.

Tanee58 · 23/02/2009 14:47

Brazen, you are not alone - and those of you who think you peed, probably ejaculated. You can tell the difference - no pee smell, and very clear liquid. It happened to me once, a very long time ago...

loopylou6 · 23/02/2009 14:49

i'm exactly the same as TMMJ, apparently, the not being able to wee straight after sex is called the 'lovers knot'

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brazenhussy · 23/02/2009 18:03

loopylou - that's exactly what it feels like, like my bladder is knotted and i couldn't wee if i tried

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BitOfFun · 23/02/2009 18:11

I think it was me that said about the full bladder thing- I can't relax enough to orgasm, because I worry I might, er, relax too much. But hey, if it works for someone else...

ridingjoker · 23/02/2009 18:16

i need to wee before sex. cant relax unless i've emptied every last drop

quickienamechangee · 23/02/2009 19:15

brazenhussy i'm with you on this one...and wierdly I can get horny with a full bladder

have never weed during sex either...i must have good bladder control!