Sex while breastfeeding

[winogal]

My DS2 is 12weeks. My partner and I haven't had penetrative intercourse since a good while before he was born, but I'm keen to 'get back in the saddle', so to speak. Problem is, my body won't play ball. Whenever we 'make out' (eek - please excuse this awful turn of phrase), I don't get wet (sorry!) the way I used to. The same thing happened after DS1 and I think I read that hormones related to breastfeeding may be the culprit here. Anyone got any experience/advice?

Ugh - tingle stuff is like rubbing raw chilli on your nethers!

oh, and, don't tell me people...I am not the only person here buying lube in a supermarket ...

no no i think it's great. i just live in london- people don't talk to each other any more, just check out each others shopping!

and on a 'rabbit' front - i have read so much about it on mumsnet that i think i will have to get one! never had a vibrator

well, my dh isn't getting it until we are sure there are no wrigglers left (had a vasectomy)..and before people tell me I am the evil bitch from hell ....he seriously took the piss when he didn't get the snip sorted and I suffered the consequences by going loopy on the pill, going through 2 years of hell of bleeding on the implant and shit like that...he thought it was hilarious...so, I told him no more until snip and it is sorted for sure...because I do not want anymore Kids and won't risk condoms and stuff...

oh, I am a convert...had a boring vibrator before, which packed up...and got the rabbit...and well...fuck me...basically

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to perk up our sex life my dh suggested using vibrator, ie he uses it on me. not sure about it. does it work? i always imagined vibrator as your own PERSONAL tool...

hmm..we used the old vibrator as a couple andthat was nice....the rabbit...well....your dh might would feel made redundent if using it together....iykwim...

i watched a little movie add on ann summers site. it does move all directions!

it does..and those beads they are like popping those bubbles...you know that plastic stuff used for packages....iykwim...but in a good way...it just has this action that no man could realy do...iykwim...but it is totally brilliant...

you got shares in rabbit factory?!

I loved that song by Extreme. Everytime I hear it now....

rofl...no just, wsell, converted....best thing I ever got! ...however, littlke disclaimer...I realise that some women may not enjoy it much....my theory is, that at first it can be, erm, a bot overwhelming...i.e. how quick it makes one react...and all that

am gonna regrett this in the morning aren't I, lol

I'm not a rabbit fan. Too slow for me, and not strong enough. I much prefer my wiggle wand.

what the hell is a wiggle wand?!

Looksee here

depend what the best is to your climax...whilst you know what is fabulous....I like the clit action of the rabbit......and more regretts...for being this honest, I mean

i think clit action is the way forward.

so dunk i just broke my dh's favourite glass (was drinking vodka out of it, it's ment for a latte). lucky he's out of a country....

better get some sleep before the little monster wakes up

night night ladies!

oh dear pitb...hope dh won't mind to much

anyway....meet your new best friend
p.s. don't open teh link in company or Kids or otherwise if it could be embaressing

Every woman should have a bullet. I don't have sex without it!

@winogal re your poor supply, fenugreek seed is fabulous for it. I would take by the tablespoon three times per day and it works really well.