Sorry..got a one track mind today. So does anybody actually have an orgasm through just the "in and out bit?"!!!

[Fizzfiend]

I can't, but always wondered just how common this actually was. Sorry for my sex-obsessed posts today...it's that time of the month!

I think it's very common for a woman to need 'more' to orgasm than just pen sex. Because the 'G-spot' is on the front wall if you like, it can be quite difficult for the penis to actually touch it epending on positions and penis shape iyswim.

Yes i do...not ever with fiddling - touching or oral! (by another person that is...) think I have an inner g spot or whatever...

ive never had an orgasm through 'just sex'

I can. It depends on the position though....

Very rarely - have to have pillows under my bum so clitoris is stimulated

Never. Don't have a bucket or anything, and while it feels great, it's just not enough to get 'there'.

I can... prefer it that way

Nope, never. My DP says all his previous partners found it easy, and was surprised that I just can't. Definitely need a bit more going on in other areas, not just straight up sex.

Sometimes, have to be very turned on though

very occasionally come with just 'in and out' but dh uses hands at the same time as erm dick and that works for me.

god. is anyone else feeling really horny now?!

I did on one amazing one night stand many many years ago

but not now...

Sigh.

Yes...but much more likely if have already had one (or two or three) through foreplay...

nope, NEVER.

yes

Yes, nearly always.

agree with hermionegranger.

i do occassionaly. Its bloomin awesome
Only a handful of times in my life though, but two of those were in the last 5 months [smug]

but...have never had more than one in one sitting...how do you manage that? I just have one big one. if you have more than one are they all sort of little ones? orgasms I mean...

yeah the first one is big and then the subsequent ones are small, sometimes like a multiple orgasm and sometimes like lots of small seperate ones.

and sometimes after a while another big one comes along

I do, when I'm getting it of course (God I'm horny) but it's position dependent.

i can orgasm on my own no problem but have never with dp. came close but just cant quite get there!

DevilsAdvocat - got the feeling i may jump on dp when he gets home. :O all this talk!

nope, never

Never, dh spouts the same as all men... "every girlfriend I've ever had has been able to" it's bollocks because I think only about 40% of the population can. So unless they have an uncanny ability to only sleep with those 40% some of them have been faking (which of course no man will accept has happened to them too - reminds me of that scene in When Harry Met Sally )

Fizzfiend , I think you need a cold shower.