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Sorry..got a one track mind today. So does anybody actually have an orgasm through just the "in and out bit?"!!!

56 replies

Fizzfiend · 06/01/2009 18:46

I can't, but always wondered just how common this actually was. Sorry for my sex-obsessed posts today...it's that time of the month!

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littleboyblue · 06/01/2009 18:49

I think it's very common for a woman to need 'more' to orgasm than just pen sex. Because the 'G-spot' is on the front wall if you like, it can be quite difficult for the penis to actually touch it epending on positions and penis shape iyswim.

8oreighty · 06/01/2009 18:51

Yes i do...not ever with fiddling - touching or oral! (by another person that is...) think I have an inner g spot or whatever...

GroovyRach · 06/01/2009 18:51

ive never had an orgasm through 'just sex'

Dropdeadfred · 06/01/2009 18:53

I can. It depends on the position though....

Tillyscoutsmum · 06/01/2009 18:53

Very rarely - have to have pillows under my bum so clitoris is stimulated

SheWillBeLoved · 06/01/2009 18:54

Never. Don't have a bucket or anything, and while it feels great, it's just not enough to get 'there'.

mrsdisorganised · 06/01/2009 18:55

I can... prefer it that way

cheerfulvicky · 06/01/2009 18:56

Nope, never. My DP says all his previous partners found it easy, and was surprised that I just can't. Definitely need a bit more going on in other areas, not just straight up sex.

ladylush · 06/01/2009 18:56

Sometimes, have to be very turned on though

DevilsAdvocaat · 06/01/2009 18:56

very occasionally come with just 'in and out' but dh uses hands at the same time as erm dick and that works for me.

god. is anyone else feeling really horny now?!

slayerette · 06/01/2009 18:56

I did on one amazing one night stand many many years ago

but not now...

Sigh.

hermionegrangerat34 · 06/01/2009 18:57

Yes...but much more likely if have already had one (or two or three) through foreplay...

allgonebellyup · 06/01/2009 18:57

nope, NEVER.

Flightattendant7 · 06/01/2009 18:58

yes

AnarchyAunt · 06/01/2009 18:58

Yes, nearly always.

DevilsAdvocaat · 06/01/2009 18:58

agree with hermionegranger.

misscathcart · 06/01/2009 18:58

i do occassionaly. Its bloomin awesome
Only a handful of times in my life though, but two of those were in the last 5 months [smug]

kormaisforlifenotjustchristmas · 06/01/2009 18:59

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8oreighty · 06/01/2009 19:00

but...have never had more than one in one sitting...how do you manage that? I just have one big one. if you have more than one are they all sort of little ones? orgasms I mean...

DevilsAdvocaat · 06/01/2009 19:01

yeah the first one is big and then the subsequent ones are small, sometimes like a multiple orgasm and sometimes like lots of small seperate ones.

and sometimes after a while another big one comes along

muggglewump · 06/01/2009 19:02

I do, when I'm getting it of course (God I'm horny) but it's position dependent.

GroovyRach · 06/01/2009 19:03

i can orgasm on my own no problem but have never with dp. came close but just cant quite get there!

DevilsAdvocat - got the feeling i may jump on dp when he gets home. :O all this talk!

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 06/01/2009 19:03

nope, never

HeadFairy · 06/01/2009 19:03

Never, dh spouts the same as all men... "every girlfriend I've ever had has been able to" it's bollocks because I think only about 40% of the population can. So unless they have an uncanny ability to only sleep with those 40% some of them have been faking (which of course no man will accept has happened to them too - reminds me of that scene in When Harry Met Sally )

mrsmaidamess · 06/01/2009 19:06

Fizzfiend , I think you need a cold shower.

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