Unsavoury habit

[Eeewww]

I was seeing a man, have split up now for several reasons, but I wondered what anyone else would make of this behaviour...I'm gagging as I think of it
When we were in bed, and kissing, he would fill his mouth up with saliva and then spit it into my mouth. Mid kiss, I would suddenly find my mouth filled with cold, thick slimy spit! Is this what dating has come to???? Please tell me this isn't normal? I'm out of it now but please God, I'd rather be single than have to endure that.

I would rather be single.

I would have kicked out into the snow the first time that he dared to do that to me.

No, that's not normal. But then I haven't dated for some time...

that is utterly disgusting and not normal on any planet i don't think

He sounded a freak [vom]

have you posted about this before? seems familiar..

he is gross, i hope you told him rather than leaving it for some other poor woman to suffer?

ddf-are you thinking of the bloke who insisted on his nob being licked clean after sex?[boak]

hahaha tmmj - i remember that one too (must have a thing for gross threads) but no..i definitely remember the sitting in mouth thing...she said he was a punk if i remember right...

every day i thank the lord for my husband

me too...(well mine not yours, but I'm sure yours is great!)

Er...my exH used to do this. Disgusting. Why oh why oh why??? I used to think

In hindsight I think it was something that turned HIM on..regardless of me. It was possibly a power thing..Maybe he was fantasising about something as he did it? No idea really. In the end I said politely 'H, ffs stop filling your gob with spit then slowly dribbling into mine as we kiss because it makes me want to be sick'.

He wasn't the slightest bit mortified. In fact he seemed a bit offended...like I should have been lapping up (pun intended) this sexy tactic.

He stopped immediately. Replaced that fantasy with something else probably. Anyway he is ex now, far far away and no doubt dribbling into some foreign chick's cakehole abroad.

Hi, no never posted about this before. He's definately not a punk either, he's in his 40s and should have some idea of what's acceptable or not. He, too, seemed to think it should be ahuge turn on, it was another exchange of bodily fluids or something. Whatever, it made me want to vomit. There was never a warning either, he'd just do it.

well-he'd have got short shrift in my bed

ugh seriously unpleasant
and eeewww being in your 40s doesn't guarantee whats acceptable or not you're right lol!!
here's hoping that you're having better snogs now thou!!

I had an ex who used to gob a mouth full of spit into my ear during sex. Vile, utterly vile.

I've had my lunch and it is about to make an early reappearance!

UGH TMI!!

but your posts seem to insinuate that he did this more than once...?
how on earth you didn't vomit on him and ask him what the fuck he was doing the first time is well beyond me....!!!

Yes, more than once. To be honest the first couple of times I thought maybe it was a mistake - maybe he was drooling or something. But when it happened again after that I did tell him it was vile. He acted like I was abnormal, frigid or prudish.

that was someon else - her bloke spat on her during sex i think! eww. did you tell this jerk how gross it was?

Yes, I did but only after it finally sank in that he was doing it deliberately! In my naivety I really thought it was by accident at first

what did he say?

I bet he claimed 'other' women went wild for him and his 'sexy' ways