Unsavoury habit

[Eeewww]

I was seeing a man, have split up now for several reasons, but I wondered what anyone else would make of this behaviour...I'm gagging as I think of it
When we were in bed, and kissing, he would fill his mouth up with saliva and then spit it into my mouth. Mid kiss, I would suddenly find my mouth filled with cold, thick slimy spit! Is this what dating has come to???? Please tell me this isn't normal? I'm out of it now but please God, I'd rather be single than have to endure that.

is it unsisterly to be pissing myself laughing at this thread?

It's absolutely unsisterly, but utterly understandable! I can laugh now that a) I no longer have to digest his saliva and b) it's not just me who thinks it's utterly deplorable behaviour.
Kat, he said something about how intimate it was, like becoming 'one' and nothing being too disgusting between a couple.

omg, he would want to piss in your mouth next

get me off this thread !!!!!!!

< boak >

Yuk. Never done it or had a woman do it to me!

I would of pulled away, spat it out and made a meal of going bluegh, bluegh bleugh while wiping my mouth

Think he would of got the message

Well some people like this sort of thing. If a new partner does something you find a bit icky (but which is not actually painful or aggressive) it's worth saying politely that this doesn't do it for you, because sometimes people's last partners really DID like something a bit unusual, and so your new P thinks (if he/she isn;t all that experienced or quick on the uptake) that he/she is master of a Secret Sexual Technique rather than having just met an individual with individual tastes.

But if a partner either calls you prudish or wierd for not liking something, or carries on doing it when you've said you don't like it, then he/she is a dickhead and should be dumped. Whatever the thing is, whether it's bondage and buttplugs or gently caressing your earlobes, if you don't like it you don't have to do it and you're not wrong or bad or wierd for either wanting to or not wanting to.