DH wants to try viagra...

[Massimo]

Can anyone shed some light on what viagra achieves? I'm guessing on top of not performing foreplay it doesn't give you desire or passion - I'm thinking just an uncomfortable hardon? Is this right? Is it more physical or psychological? Is it worth trying once?

Is it reckless of him to take it when I think he does not suffer from erectile dysfunction?

Dp has tried it

And I have tried it

At the same time...

It was good

it gives you a hard cock

not YOU obviously, otherwise we'd all be taking it

it can make it harder to achieve orgasm, so if that's a problem it might help

if he doesn't have any problems getting an erection, I'm not sure what he wants to achieve?

God no - he'll be going for hours and hours and hours and hours and hours.

You will end up with a very chafed fanjo.

I think he thinks it will give him desire and passion (like you have at the start of a relationship) and generally spice things up a bit.
We've been together for about 10 years and have a toddler so are trying to rediscover and improve our previous sexual relationship.

he needs a mistress for that

I'm teasing obviously

What about a night away?

A blindfold and a feather is much more effective in creating desire IME. He doesn't want to muck about with a drug which can give you a nine hour hard and has known side effects like blindness and sudden death unless he has problems with erectile dysfunction?

Nine hour hard on obviously

Tis a bugger on the bus the next morning if it's still there as well!

Ouch! Been there, hence the problems.

And that's something a night away doesnt fix.

OMG perfect thread for me

My DH let me in on a little secret the other day that numerous friends of his take viagra even thought they have no erectile problems at all

apparently they want to be able to go for ages and not orgasm, apparently its quite the thing at the moment

apparently apparently

apparently its quite the thing at the moment

lol

sorry for my fauz pas there

what works for him and you? dressing up? I can recommend Primark for plentiful negligees that cover up your baby-belly....

stockings?

new and plentiful underwear?

high heels and boots?

what about taking a half-day off work once a month for lunch and the other?

"apparently they want to be able to go for ages and not orgasm"

I'm not entirely sure what's in this for you!

whatever did happen to mademez? Seeing this thread made me realise I have not seen her in ages.

big git you arent onservasnt enough she changed name but is very recognizable

Madamez is the first name changer I have ever recognised

So she must be bloody obvious

But that's exactly what I think - what is in it for me? It's not like it is going to turn him into some sort of double-headed sexgod or improve his or my technique - that is only going to come through practice and communication which unfortunately makes everything feel so staged.

just look at any fuck buddy thread and you will see her

what do you want to achieve

I must keep off the music threads and pay more attention!