I think this is crunch time for dp and I , we have packed dd away for a few days and have some time on our own to sort things out.

[twinsetandpearls]

We have not had more than two hours on our own since we moved in August. I know that the next few days are going to be crucial in deciding if we stay together or not.

Good luck, twinset. I hope that you make the most of your time together and that things work out for you.

good luck - stay level and take a break when things get heated.

I hope it works out for the best

good luck

very mature - hope things work out the way you want

I have been tidying up as I know he thinks I am bone idle around the house. Waiting nervously for him to get home.

Oh TSAP, email me if you need anything, shoulder to cry on etc.

I am hoping that time to sort things out means the time we need on our own to work out where we went wrong and to put it right.

Thanks 5gomad

Good idea and good luck

psml kerry of you could see me you would die. I am in my cute but in now way sexy pink animal print pyjamas that have dribbles of pea and ham soup down them. I have also had some fanjo issues so there will be no sex. I also have a set of books to mark - he left with them in the car so couldn;t do it this afternoon.

Hey, tsap, good luck. Hope you manage to get some insight into yourself, into him, and your relationship. Be yourself, but fgs, get out of the soupstained PJ!!!
But, dont place too much emphasis on the next few days, ok? Just be.

twinset - all the best for however it goes. Let us know you're ok.

[encouraging squeeze]

At least put something clean on and a bit of lippy and perfume

He has come back moody, grumpy and tired so I am getting on with my school work.

Oh god. Maybe he is waiting for you to take the initiative? Take those pea-soupy PJs off, slam the books shut and take a small pair of black gloves from the under-the- under-sink cupboard - they're next to the bleach - those black slinky gloves you keep for a rainy day grumpy H.

Pull them on, sidle over...then slap him.

hopefully when you both wake up tomorrow with no DC around you can have a relaxing morning together?
Good luck!
Good idea to get the marking out the way

Have you tried asking him whats the matter? what you can do to help him relax as you have time together and would shame to waste it?

Nope I leave for work at 7 in the morning.

good luck with this.

TALK TO HIM

or wait until tomorrow when not so grumpy and tired.

He is asleep on the sofa I tried talking to him before and he snapped at me I have a headache