dh been messaging some foxy woman on a music web thing a bit like facebook. v cross

[belcantavinissima]

we share an email address and he has been obsessed with this bloody website for weeks now. tonight i found he had a msg from someone and when i cross-checked it against his 'page' i found he had already sent this random woman (who, incidentally is all tits and pouting and fake tan) a msg saying 'you look fantastic honey'. . she msged him back saying he obvv has very good taste.

wtf was he doing sending that? what a git! and he kept going on about how he wasnt going to msg anyone or do any of the 'friends' listings etc (and he hasnt so far). she has now sent him a friends request. shall i decline it on his behalf? or just quietly keep an eye on it? should i say something? i feel unneccessarily angry about it but not sure i should be, wwyd???

good idea to get him to show you, then & there.

keep your chin up x

bel - at least the hen w/e will be a chance to have a few drinks and talk about it with your friends. I hope you manage to enjoy yourself a little bit at least.

Let us know how you are getting on, won't you? x

thanks skidaddle i will do x

OH FUCK. this is his latest offering to his dolly bird:

my recent visitors bit is looking damned unattractive since you've dropped off the bottom...as a youngster I shouldn't be getting these thoughts but your photo is hot

i fucking HATE him he is a wanker

unhappy bump b4 i drown myself , alone, in wine

argh
you poor thing
I didn't want to leave you there on your own

I must say as he has previous and you have done all the counselling etc before I would bloody chuck him out too

Feel so sorry for you - he's obviously got some emotional need he feels isn't being met. Or a huge ego that needs stroking... you have to speak to him about this!

he is behaving like a horny 15 year old. not a married man and a father. he has no excuse for this. am so sorry ,

thank you all. again. i feel really stupid pathetic and needy for going on about this . i am so sorry its not like me at all. everyone in RL always goes on about how strong i am but rightn ow i just need some company and a cuddle and noone is here and noone will leave their cosy family homes to be with me. great friends i have.

I have been supporting best friend through marriage break up for the last year. it sucks keep telling yourself that you and your children deserve better than this. he has done it before, and he still cannot see what he will lose, he is thoroughly selfish and blinded by lust. am sorry your friends not with you right now. it must be very difficult

youre all here tho, my virtual MN friends . thats more than many have. it means alot.

you need to feel positive about the decisions you are making and the strength you have. where is your H at the mo?

in scotland ('working' ). he has found time to msg the bimbo but not to contact his effing family

nice.

if i was feeling evil, i would see if there was a way to message her and tell her the truth about this fun guy she is flirting with

i want to set up a fake acct with this thing and see if i can catch him out but i would need a photo. have been googling like mad but nothing good is coming up. also i think i might need to be able to use this music/stereo/radio thing that it links to in order to do it . hmmmm.

ffs he just phoned me, normal as you like and had the nerve to end it 'love you angel'

hwo about this
Looks like she would be up for it

or her

oooh yes

CD! you are good

bel, stay strong !

How the hell didn't he tell by your voice that something was wrong??

You must have amazing strength of character belcantavinisssima to have acted so normally - this strength will see you through this x

Agree that you should just have it out now. I was in the same situation and got myself into a terrible state. Talk to him. If he really loves you he will try and find a way of fixing it. If not, well...wouldn't you rather know? Men do flirt and act like idiots. It is usually nothing, but they still need to know that IT HURTS OUR FEELINGS. Speak to him.

cd they are goo de pictueres.
ofh god i am quite osiessed a manage d rto find a friend wiklling to visit me so have had a good evenning moaning. sorry about the spellings.[bllllush]

i am going to habve one hall of a hangover tomororwe.

such a shiot mother not woncder he doesnt want to be wit hem. AM PROBABLY AM even crapper wife

friend asked why i dint call him and tell him to come vabsk NOW? is that i good idea do yoy think?

Spelling is atrocious lol, away and flog yourself. How are you feeling this morning, hope your hangover isn't too bad.