HELP husband decided no longer loves me!

[Sharon1972]

Seriously in need of some support and advice, dh has decided after 12 years of marriage and 2 children (aged 1 and 3) that he no longer loves me,but won't move out! am devastated, never knew it was possible to love and hate someone so much, any advice on things I should be doing to protect my rights would be appreciated.(sad)

Hi everyone, house is sold have had my offer accepted for another house, so everything is moving along nicely. Went to stay with my Mum for weekend and realised that I WILL be better off without him in fact am looking forward to just being me and not having to pretend to be what he wants anymore

Glad to hear you sounding so positive after what must have been a very traumatic couple of months

Wow quick house sale! so glad that things are going well for you, you are a great role model for those women who worry about going solo when stuck in an unhappy relationship! Good Luck for the future

Just saw this thread and wanted to say Congrats on selling the house. I know this is a difficult time but it's great that you have been able to take the necessary steps to get control of your life. It's also wonderful that you are able to move back near your family. They will be such a help, practically and emotionally.

Hang on a minute, why do you have to sell your house? You must get some legal advice before doing this. You might find yourself in a poor position trying to find another home otherwise. If he wants to live somewhere else then let him but that shouldn't affect your situation. Be careful.

Hi Shari - just read your thread and wanted to send {{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}} - Your dh sounds like hes having a midlife crisis - I really really hope things continue to get better for you xxx

Secondhand rose, it's ok I have had legal advice and he is paying the mortgage on new house plus is giving me 60% of equity plus generous maintainance payments, we have had to sell the house as we just can't afford to keep it sad but true I'm afraid, I won't end up out of pocket I ptomise.

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Hi Dior, yes starting to thanks! I am off to my solitors in a weeks time just to check what we're doing is ok.

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Hi, quick update, last mediation session went ok, but dh has started moving the goalposts on money and access to dd 1 &2 not majorly though, we will be going to our last session at the end of the month when it will all be put in a document to take to solicitors. Talking of solicitors I am filing for divorce on Wednesday as the thought of being married to him makes me sick. I am feeling more in control of my life than I ever had and now realise he was wrong for me in so many ways looking forward to my new life and have even managed to rekindle a friendship from back home recently that I thought was long dead.

Can't believe it's been so long since I last posted, quick update I have filled for divorce on the groundsof unreasonable behaviour, should be moving back to norfolk beginning of May and am really feeling positive about it, I have got a job and childcare all sorted out for when i get there, will be glad to start new life, DH has practically moved out now so don't have to put up with him alot, just got to get him to take all his crap with him!!!!

Well, here I am again, thought I should post again, as.....wait for it....... I've met someone!

well never saw that coming! He is the most adorable, sexy, witty man I have ever met, and get this my kids love him, how cool is that?

Am back in Norfolk and have started new job, everything working out so far

aww well done sharon! sooo pleased for u girl xxx

Did you ever find out if anything was going on with xdh and bus stop woman?

Nothing was going on, but she is involved with his life now, he has her with him when he has the kids as "backup" so who knows what that means.

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