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Husband calling other women love after previous boundary issues

103 replies

Hol36 · 02/08/2026 09:11

We’ve had problems with my husband inappropriately texting other women in the past one instance is it getting very over friendly with him and his friends widow after his friend had died. We had dealt with that and moved on but I noticed recently that he calls women he doesn’t know Love eg women serving him etc and it makes me feel disrespected especially given our history. I’ve not bought it up with him as I feel tired of having to have these conversations with him

OP posts:
Yellow456 · 03/08/2026 20:14

Yes it does

Dreamcatcherat50 · 03/08/2026 21:13

Why do you deal with it and move on when he acts in a way which is disrespectful to you?

He sounds so embarrassing. Is it the case that any relationship is better than no relationship?

TallSturdyGirls · 03/08/2026 21:15

Sherararara · 02/08/2026 09:16

I wouldn’t be happy with my DH calling any woman Love. It’s demeaning, outdated, patronising and quite frankly,
common.

Common. Jesus

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