Hi guys, i’m just looking for some advice and if anyone else has been in a similar situation. I’m currently 8 weeks pregnant and my partner has randomly left me and kicked me out. Taken my keys off me. We tried for 8 years for a baby and it never happened and then it did, so it seems like an absolute miracle. I’ll give a little back story so there’s both sides to the story. Last year i cheated on him, he pushed me away and made me feel crap. He found out early April, and he was distraught. He couldn’t sleep, couldn’t eat and was begging for me back and to move back in full time (i moved myself out to give him space). Every now and again he said he wanted revenge but couldn’t hurt me like that. We were getting through the problems and got back together and we were better than ever. I then fell pregnant, yes timing was so so wrong, but it just felt magical cos it’s what we wanted for so long. He also said to me ‘i don’t have to worry about you cos no one’s gonna wanna f*** a pregnant woman’ So he’s super excited, he has a child but he has no contact and didn’t get to go to any scans or birth, so said he was super exciting to go to scans. He suggested that we went and got a little good luck charm, and we were SO happy. He was being amazing to me, i thought wow this is amazing. We are so much better than before. Then a week after finding out he came home after seeing his sister (hadn’t spoken to his sister in years mind cos she’s toxic) and ended things with me. That same night he had his ex round, we had been together 9 years so it’s an ex from years ago. Then other day i went to the house to grab some bits and found her in my bed, told her to get out and she said im not getting involved anymore. Low and behold she saw him the next day. She knew i was pregnant, and she has a 5 month old. He won’t speak to me, he won’t tell me why he’s done it, and he’s said he never wants to be with me again. And i just don’t get it cos only a few days before he said it’s always me and he can’t wait for our future as a little family. He’s already talking about custody, and honestly it’s draining the life out of me, as i’m sat worrying every night about another girl in my bed. When last week he was cuddling me and saying he loves the smell of me and it’s changed cos i’m pregnant and he can’t get enough of me. When we bicker we normally sort things in less than a week but it’s been a week now. His sister sent me an awful message saying i’m rotten to the core cos i told me partner/ex i don’t know if i can through wirh the pregnancy and can we please talk and he ignored me. I don’t think that’s unreasonable, as it’s a bit decision and i’m not living back at my dads in a spare room and he has the house. I’m just wondering if anyone’s been through something similar, part of me thinks he’s doing it as revenge, as he knows i really don’t like this ex. But silly me would take him back, as i just want our little family as that’s all i’ve ever dreamed of, so if anyone has advice on how to make him realise what he’s missing out on?! He’s throwing his whole future away.