Husband staying over at boss’s house. Normal?

[Lana20]

Hi everyone. Does anyone think this is normal or something to be worried about? My sister’s husband works for a wealthy family that have a country house. He has been invited to stay with them for the weekend and he has accepted. My sister doesn’t want him to go but he’s going anyways as he’s hoping to get a bonus/promotion soon. His wife and her parents are also staying there & my sister finds it’s strange that he would want to stay at their house especially whilst his wife is there. Would this bother anyone or would this be considered normal?

Has there been any updates?

Yes he ended up going and called my sister continuously while he was there. He didn’t have good reception though as there were in the countryside & what bothered her is he had to sleep in the room next door to the woman. He had to work closely with the lady again today and go out with her & some colleagues to lunch that she was not happy with again but he’s not willing to leave his job

Is that the what three words of the horror house?

Why are you posting on your own thread with a different user name? That's a bit of an effort to go to, did you set up a 2nd account to do it?

I would be more worried if the wife wasn’t there

I thought Mumsnet had put a stop to the ability to post more than once on a thread with different handles? Yet here's the OP doing that.

They have. The only way the OP could be doing so is if they have multiple accounts, which is against MN talk rules.

Or Log in via an iPad or then iPhone so diff ip address

From a different account, you can't name change in the same account but I'm sure you can have as many accounts as you can be bothered to set up

I think this one is also the same person, except in this one it's a stunningly beautiful cousin instead of a stunningly beautiful sister.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5542500-why-do-men-cheat-if-their-wife-is-beautiful

Yes - it feels like someone desperate to show men and women can’t be friends/colleagues

potentially their DH has cheated with an unattractive woman?

Sister is bonkers!
It is perfectly normal to invite someone who is working away from home to social events over the weekend
What else is he supposed to do with his free time?

Is there a reason for her to ask him to leave his job though. It doesn’t seem like it’s anything more than work

Well he’s either impressed his boss and he’s up for a promotion or he’s off for some kind of orgy, i hope it’s a promotion 😯

Given he was going for the weekend when the thread was started on Monday and it’s only Wednesday - the update is off the mark

I think op is the actual wife.

Husband abroad should keep his mouth shut in future about colleagues comments regard his dress sense and sharing time with his bosses family. It seems his wife will hound him out of his job for no good reason than she is jealous of a woman she has presumably never met, considering she lives abroad.

if wife doesn’t trust her husband to behave himself abroad, then why did she not go with him?

So when he’s back from his weekend chez boss your wife can arrange to go out without him. Ideally before he goes she can make this point that if she’s meant to be ok with him staying there without her he can never get pissed off with her going out without him. If he can’t agree to that he shouldn’t go, hypocritical bastard

I’d be more concerned that he needs to bring a little old lady with lots of small village references who can solve the murder that sounds inevitable…

This is bonkers. If it’s true, I think you your sister needs to get some help with her insecurities.