Husband staying over at boss’s house. Normal?

[Lana20]

Hi everyone. Does anyone think this is normal or something to be worried about? My sister’s husband works for a wealthy family that have a country house. He has been invited to stay with them for the weekend and he has accepted. My sister doesn’t want him to go but he’s going anyways as he’s hoping to get a bonus/promotion soon. His wife and her parents are also staying there & my sister finds it’s strange that he would want to stay at their house especially whilst his wife is there. Would this bother anyone or would this be considered normal?

It’s a family business though?

So this woman has complimented his dress sense and as a couple they have invited him to stay with them and he thinks that means she wants to shag him, and has helpfully passed that idea onto his wife so that she can feel insecure while he’s working away. What a douche he is.

Yes

He has said the woman has complimented him but not that the woman is interested in him. He said the husband invited him because he’s fond of him

Not that weird that she would be involved then

is she now going to spend the whole weekend stressing and then give him the third degreee? As stunning as she may be, jealousy is not a good look

The other issue is her husband gets jealous if she goes out with friends while he’s working abroad yet he can go stay at his boss’s house or go out with friends

That was my first thought too.

Well that’s a separate issue and she needs to tell him to wind his neck in

Because his wife is in another country as he’s currently working abroad

Did you also start the "Why do men cheat if their wife is beautiful" thread?

Are these stunningly beautiful sisters and cousins actually you, and you're trying to get advice about your insecurities without coming across as arrogant?

No my sister’s husband hasn’t cheated and I don’t think he ever would. I was just asking if this is something normal to do or not because to me it’s fine but to my sister it’s strange. Lol strange connection

This is really really dysfunctional. He’s in a foreign country alone, being invited to stay for the weekend is fairly notmal.

how odd she doesn’t want him in the next bedroom and you’re on here calling his wife desperate, all as she complimented his dress sense and asks him to do stuff, he’s an employee.

Fair enough!

To me it's fine as well, for what it's worth.

Also, how does she know she’s unattractive and they’ll be in neighbouring bedrooms

Are they swingers ?

Why are you living separately from your DH? Not a criticism btw, I’m just trying to understand your relationship

Tea. Spat. Walls

Heck this sounds like another thread yesterday, where the OP was concerned she might 'gravitate' towards this other bloke at a hobby thing they both do and she was asking whether she should stop going.🤔

you posted a thread about maintaining a long term relationship as your husband is working abroad and you have concerns regarding a female colleague. So which is it, you or your sister ?

Yep, it might be more helpful to you here if you talk about yourself rather than pretending it’s your dsis.

This is entirely normal in family businesses, especially abroad. The boss offering hospitality to a high level employee when they're working in his country, is pretty standard as far as I can tell from my ex pat friends.

Your sister is being silly. And yes, she's potentially jeopardising a potential promotion for DH if she puts her foot down.

Tell me you don't trust your husband without telling me you don't trust your husband. She thinks he's going to fuck his boss's wife, in his boss's home, whilst her DH is there?

She obviously doesn't trust him then. And none of that sounds all that flirty.

Agree. I'm thinking the OP's h is staying with his boss and it is OP who is concerned, it so, why all the 'sister' nonsense? Happy to be told I'm wrong.

Does he dress nicely?