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cross the line?

28 replies

Everyothernamewasalreadyinuse · 15/06/2026 11:35

If you found this text exchange on your partners phone... what would you think?

Would you think he is fishing or innocent between male and female friends.

Him : you up to anything exciting today?

Her:
Just spending some time in the garden enjoying the sun. What about you?

Him: Just cleaning nothing exciting

Him -
Try not to burn anything in the sun (Wink face)

Her: Will try my best (wink face)

Him: Lucky Neighbours (Wink face)

Her: Ha, they are on holiday at the moment

Him: Lucky you x Promise i wont look (wink face

Her: Shocked face

OP posts:
MCF86 · 16/06/2026 21:46

Plaatro · 15/06/2026 17:06

It’s possible from that that this isn’t the first time either! Seems very familiar. Disgusting when you are grieving.

That was my thought.
He was confident she'd receive it well, going straight in with that! My guy friend would never be sending me winky faces. I could tell him I was sunbathing topless (not that I would) and all he would do is send a gif of a some sort of hairy saggy ape.

SisterMaryImmaculate · 16/06/2026 22:35

Sorry about your mum OP.
This isn’t sit down and talk about it territory- this is bin bags in the front garden behaviour.
Shitehawk.

MrFlintstone · 16/06/2026 22:42

He's flirting and fishing, he's a twat.

He should be concentrating on you in your hour of need.

If any partner of mine did this, it would be the end. You can't have a relationship of any type without trust.

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