A bit of advice, my dh got caught accessing an escort, long story but he came clean. We have a young family, I decided to try and forgive and move on. At that time there was significant stress and money worries, not an excuse but nevertheless I chose to try work on it. He accessed therapy and came clean to friends/family. Fast forward a year later, I’m looking through his phone to be nosey - I do this now and again probably for reassurance, aware the trust is building still. I notice a rogue email link and follow it, I discover he tried to log back in to the site that mainly is about escorts/webcams etc. I done some investigating and it looks like he went to create an account again but then didn’t. So I screenshot the email, and give him loads of opportunities to come clean. Tbh for me it was a relapse, one of which I would have understood if he told me himself, chatted about it and we could have looked at it together. But he lied through his teeth. I said to him that I needed access to his emails to check for my ‘own sanity’ that he hadn’t been accessing sites again, he was a nervous wreck, but low and behold there was nothing there, so he had obviously deleted it. I asked him again to come clean, again he denied it. I then at this point showed him the screenshot of the email, and he knew it was game over. He says that he knew I would end the marriage if I found out he tried to access these sites and felt he couldn’t be honest, he panicked and avoided the confrontation. Now even as I’m typing this, I get it, in my head the marriage is over, but I feel awful about it. He thinks he has addiction issues and needs help. He is an incredible father and an amazing husband (the above of course not included). What would you do? Can you move on from something like this? Financially we are tied until January, so even physically moving on will be impossible.