Top 3 personality traits you would avoid in a partner

[SophieLakeside]

What are the top 3 personality traits that you don't want to see in a potential partner?

Mine are:-

1. Dishonesty
2. Arrogance
3. Selfishness

I have dropped partners (or would be partners) for📧

Talking AT me rather than to me/mansplaining
Stinginess
Whingeing and nitpicking
Unable to stand up for themselves
Procrastination
Weaponised helplessness

Bad/Wreckless with money
Being really into comic books/Harry Potter/Lord of the Rings/Horoscopes/Disney
Self centred and Humourless

Tight/Ungenerous (of spirit or with money)

Makes bad choices in friends (eg, just accepts mysoginists or users)

Humourless/ridged.

1. Anyone who has claimed to be an Alpha male
2. Anyone who has ever uttered Not All Men.
3. Any man who demands 50/50 everything. This always means the woman is going to go through hell once children are involved. ALWAYS.

i met a mature man (60s) recently who told me he has a dread fear of needles. I asked what happens if his GP asks for a sample of blood to be drawn. He told me he has to ask for a double appointment to ‘put him at ease’ (along these lines).

I know we all have our quirks and foibles, and people’s phobias are wide and varied, but this was not attractive. Oh c’mon, don’t be such a giant baby.

Lying. Immaturity. Lack of ambition.

Cheapness
anger issues/sulkiness
disloyalty/untrustworthiness