Top 3 personality traits you would avoid in a partner

[SophieLakeside]

What are the top 3 personality traits that you don't want to see in a potential partner?

Mine are:-

1. Dishonesty
2. Arrogance
3. Selfishness

Dishonesty
Being an addict to anything
Laziness

A liar. someone selfish. Someone unkind.

Jealousy
Thin skin
Spite

"or even just buying expensive coffees/snacks when there are cheaper options easily available."

Stinginess would be mine.

Spiders are not (depending where you live), but the dentist is a totally rational fear.

Predisposition to any kind of addiction (difficult to know until it’s too late…)
Solitary ie no personal friends
A closed mind ie no willingness to grow, explore or tolerate anything new or different

1. Emotional immaturity
2. Manipulative
3. Not very bright

Third person saying white trainers!! What do white trainers signify? generally referring to overly clean trainers?

Selfishness- but totally the opposite to others
anger
lack of empathy

Has
a
pulse

Sorry, I’ve just had enough of trying to find a decent partner.

Glad to see I’m not alone.

Only 3?
money hang ups at either extreme
mansplaining
addiction of any sort

Yip, you just described my husband 🙈

I think you’re misunderstanding. Or I am!

Controlling
stingy
aggressive

I give you mumsnet ladies, gentlefolk, (and of course those who identify however they see fit !!)😩

(While Looking under my stairs at DH’s; 2 of 3 x DS; DD and DSIL -staying over as easier for work tomo - 5 pairs of bright white various expensive trainers lol - wondering if we are a red flag / undateable / nouveau riche family with no hope !!!)

Mine would be
tightness
lacking sense of humour
and tightness
did I say tightness ?

Classism boiled down to its nub

But each to their own

I guess the female equivalent might be a pink velour ‘juicy’ tracksuit

Which along with white trainers feature heavily in my household of tradesman/ apprentices and students /professionals

So they need bugger off with the classist nonsense in the context of worrying character traits lol

x

All of the above. I have high standard and deserve only the best👌

That’s me fucked then lol x

God same!

A man looking at menu or board for coffee nitpicking for cheapest and suggesting a meal deal over a lunch there in the cafe

Or bringing popcorn and warm tins of pop to the cinema hidden in his ‘rucksack’

absolute minge cringe

See also- waiting for a bus 20mins in the rain rather than him hailing down a cab as quick as he can.

1. dishonest
2. self centred - a narcissist pretty much - when all things are about them
3. controlling - mainly controlling in an obsessive way. Especially over the partner

Unkindness and mean-spiritedness
Sense of persecution
Any hint of a temper

1 Pessimism/negativity
2 Difficulty making decisions
3 Vocalising. Every. Single. Thought.

My partner of many years has all of these characteristics which have become more pronounced as he gets older. He does have ADHD though, which probably accounts for 2 and 3. I get it. I really do. But it drives me round the bend.

Lack of emotional awareness
Arogant
Addictive issues

Nearly everything mentioned in these posts.Plus, lack of persoal hygiene, bad breath, baldness and wearing a string vest.