Telling boyfriend before abortion

[Grghf]

I screwed up the contraception. We've been together a year long distance (seeing each other twice a month). Supposed to be moving in together in 2 months time.
Ive made an appointment for a medical abortion but I want to tell him first. I just feel sad like somethings changed. I wonder if he will see me differently now. Im scared to get the abortion.

Agree. This is about OP's body. He has no say here. His say with regard to having future offspring ended when he decided to ejaculate.

OP if you’re seeing him today I would bring him up date, even if you don’t have a positive test use it to initiate a serious discussion about it.
He might be disappointed you aren’t pregnant, he might not be, if you are then maybe it’s the time to tell him how you feel.

I told him last night. He was really comforting and supportive and we had a serious chat. We are now just going to get on with our weekend and have a nice time together and then have another chat on Monday.

Thanks for the update OP, I’m pleased you have told him and he was supportive.

And you may not. I bled for a day, had zero regrets and no strong emotions about the entire event six years later. It was very much a quick in and out.

That’s good.