We’re seeing one another two months, normally each week or twice per week. We live far away from each other but both make the effort. We both have full time busy jobs, teenagers at home and other commitments.
Im going overseas next week for a week with my teens.
This means that I won’t see him for two weeks. That’s perfectly fine but he has purchased tickets to a gig at the weekend for us , with my prior acceptance of the invitation. This is sat night an hour away from my home. I fly on Sunday am early.
He is very kind and courteous and within context has suggested that this may be too much for me and my kids to be away from Friday morning until late Saturday night in view of my early flight on the Sunday.
If we don’t do this it will be another extra week that we won’t have met one another and a month since we will have spent a night together.
I feel that we’re both on the same page with feelings and intention but a month without intimacy and two weeks without seeing each other at this early stage seems lacking?
He has left it completely up to me.
would it be unfair on my kids to be gone for that length of time before our early flight .. early Friday morning to late Saturday night. I don’t want him to cancel tickets as they’re paid for and it may be rude to suggest it.
They’re 15 and 17.