Hi OP,
Have just come back to the thread, and I am happy for you that you have made a decision that will hopefully give you some peace.
I think too often propl tolerate relationships that give them less than they want/need our if fear of being seen as "needy" (and indeed, some of the comments on this thread would indicate this is a valid fear!)
But a counsellor I had once said to me, what is the problem with this word "needy" anyway? You are human, of course you have needs."
But somehow I had learned that having needs, and communicating them, was a sign of weakness.
It's actually a sign of strength in my opinion!
And this guy isn't meeting yours, so the rational, strong, self-conpassionate thing to do is to end it and move one, as you are doing.
As I mentioned when I responded before, I think it is quite common at our age to find men on apps (and maybe there are women like this too?. Wno knows) who like the idea of having a girlfriend - someone available for companionship/sex on their terms - but once they feel they have secured her, the relationship then becomes their lowest priority, and other things, like DIY projects, hobbies, exercise, seeing friends etc, are consistently prioritised above the relationship.
Don't get me wrong. Some things, like their work/kids/their own mental health, SHOULD rightly come above the relationship.
But choosing to never have a weekend free because you go on cycling trips every time (as one of my friend's exes did) is a choice, not a necessity.
Well done for backing yourself enough to stand up for what you need, and I wish you luck in finding someone whose priorities and capacity for commitment/care better align with your own......