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What would you make of this msg…

104 replies

Nameuser321 · 15/11/2025 10:06

These are not the exact words btw…
this was sent after a night out.

sorry my performance was shit
don’t worry i get anxiety sometimes too

this was between 2 men after a group night out

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Starlight1984 · 17/11/2025 11:55

divorcinganabsolutewanker · 17/11/2025 11:27

Sounds like someone couldn't get or keep it up.

This.

RamALamADingDong2 · 17/11/2025 11:56

I think the word 'performance' can be used in terms of how blokes behave with one another E.g getting too drunk (poor performance!) or being funny (he was on form!) and so on. If the mate is saying sorry for his performance, maybe he was being a downer, which was a bit shit for the others and that's why he's clarifying that he gets anxiety?

BunnyLake · 17/11/2025 12:04

Nameuser321 · 16/11/2025 20:41

It didn’t seem like a woman but u could be wrong
and the pill is confusing me
and ges always accusing me of being gay

I can’t see a woman using the word performance and how bad at it (whatever it is) would a woman have to be to send a message worded like that?

Nameuser321 · 17/11/2025 13:56

@RamALamADingDong2 ir was him mag saying how his performance last last was vad and the mate replied saying he get anxiety too sometimes

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