Been speaking to a guy for 2 weeks & we've been on a coffee date.
His 42, a father of 4 kids, works full time. His last ex treated him quite badly.
When we first started talking it was great lots of laughing but the last few days when he messages Im dreading what he will say. Gone has this fun guy to be replaced with lots of family drama & obsessive messages. I was on the phone to a friend last night for about an hour & during this call I recieved 5 messages from him, just as I got off the phone I recieved another one & it was "take it your ignoring me, speak to you tomorrow but if you dont want to talk to me I understand". He's told his mum & kids about me, he's planning trips, weekends away etc. He even went as far as saying "I know you have a son but I can sort a babysitter so we can go out one evening" we live in different towns & would rather choose a babysitter i trust or a family member. Im at university 3 days a week, plus I work part-time & a single mum (which he knows) my free time is limited but if i go a few hours without messaging he just texts me saying "guess your busy speak to you later or not" when ive already said im at work or university. I even had to text a list of what I was doing everyday so he knew when I was free. I have reminded him its only been 2 weeks & one date so to just relax abit, slow it down, go with the flow but it doesn't seem to have made much difference. Am I a bad person to want to end this before it goes any further?