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Is it crazy to remarry the same person!

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JofoXX · 22/08/2025 14:05

So, married my partner after only 12 months of meeting. The year 2020, booked and done within 22 days, very much a whirlwind!

We had 2 children afterwards and due to alot of traumatic events I experienced and the harsh reality of the new family dynamic, chaos etc we broke up and I hotheadly divorced him!

We split briefly but have since reconciled and are better than ever. We wpuld have renewed our vows this year, but now we are thinking of remarrying after Christmas.

Is this just bonkers?!

OP posts:
wafflesmgee · 24/08/2025 21:27

I’m glad you feel it’s right for you and wish you a long and happy marriage

FattyMcFattyArse · 25/08/2025 01:14

What difference would being married make to your daily life, your finances, assets etc?
Do you own your house?

Get legal advice before doing anything. Just for you, not jointly.
Understand what rights you would lose or gain first.

TorroFerney · 25/08/2025 06:43

JofoXX · 22/08/2025 17:47

I don't mind opinions but what I don't like is people saying "poor children" or that I've been gaslit or that we've split every 5 minutes etc. Things that aren't factual. I appreciate the opinions but yes I am going to do it, I never asked for someone to change my mind I merely asked "is it bonkers" of course. If it's irritating then my advice woukd be to not waste your own time commenting 😀

I am sorry but whatever you think, the list of stuff you've mentioned will have affected your children in some way. That is just a fact. The fact that you can't acknowledge it is odd.

Lighteningstrikes · 25/08/2025 08:01

I’m so sorry for your losses, it must have been a horrendous time for you 💐

I think you should get married and wish you all the very best x

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