If you don't live with your DP, do you do this?

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As a full adult, do you send good morning and goodnight texts, ( WA) to your partner?

Yes I do when we are not together.

Yes, occasionally but not every day. We see each other every two days.

Rarely.

But I think I'm only a half adult, not a full one 😁

Yes. Every day without fail. Also share our Heardle scores in the morning! Been together 2 1/2 years.

Yes we did when we didn't live together. We also spoke on the phone every night before going to sleep.

Why so sneery?

We do, 5 years together and no plans to live together.
At 37 i consider myself to be a full adult, unless there's some other meaning that I'm not aware of

No. I’d find it a little suffocating.

We usually do a good morning. Not always a good night depending on work/life/hobby situations

What do you mean?

I just meant like not a teen or early 20, 21, 22 ish. No hidden meaning,

I know, me too. Sometimes i'm looking for like a real adult 😁

A mix then. Its not something that comes naturally to me. I have adhd though and just forget about people.

Yes . Every night if we aren’t together

Yes absolutely. We're very long term and committed though (i.e. engaged), just not living together due to kids.

I can relate to that! I have ADHD and out of sight, out of mind is a real thing. But the methodical, routine-loving side of me liked having a consistent beginning and end to each day.

I have ADHD and don’t live with my DP and yes we send each other good morning and good night messages without fail.

No. I’d find it a bit much. But then I’m not lovey dovey!

Im not either.

If you don’t live together then I don’t think the term is partner surely it should be boyfriend.

Not always. But we text daily several times.

There's always one 🙄

Boyfriend suggests something transient. You dont need to live together to have a long term partner.

I used to with all my previous partners but not with my current partner as it’s not his thing. I struggled with it a bit in the beginning but I got used to it and it doesn’t bother me anymore. But that’s mostly because he is very consistent, considerate, honest, etc. If he was a bit hot and cold (like some men are), I would start getting anxious and struggle with the lack of texts

Do you think so? Even if you've been together a long time? More than a couple of years.

It amuses me how people who think they have ADHD get it into every discussion!