Oh Bananabeau you will be missed.

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I'm so sorry to see your post has been removed. You will be missed.
I refreshed my app daily in the hopes of seeing positive updates from you, and I'm sad you felt you needed to remove your post altogether.
I wish you well in your future and I sincerely hope you can fulfill your dreams.

You deserve to be happy.
💗

They are all used to it tbh. Extended family were commenting how great I was for him, and how seeing the contrast was astounding.

Good woman ♥️.
Spoken like a true Princess Anne who would add that horses are better anyway.

His extended family? Presumably still talking in the present tense of how great you are for him? I hope they tell him that once you've gone. He lost you by pandering to his crazy ex and not treating you properly.

You sound so much stronger than in your first thread.

There's light at the end of the tunnel.

Hopefully their continued awfulness will keep you motivated to move forward on to better things .

I’m willing you away from this freak show @bananabeau. Your H is such utter scum I can’t even say, and his ex is dangerously unhinged.

They're all as mad as hatters.

@bananabeau how are you doing?

Just wondering how you are doing @bananabeau and how your plans for freedom are coming along. Hope you are ok.

Thinking of you and hope all is well

I’m feeling really low. I have been for a few weeks. I don’t know how much more I can take. I’m sorry

I'm so sorry to read that Bananabeau. Has anything happened? I really hope you can be free soon.

He’s taken every single penny of our money. I don’t even have 1p. He worked out I planned to leave. He’s making sure I don’t even have bus fare to the next town

How on earth? That's terrible. I'm so sorry. What a bastard.

Could you contact Women's Aid?

I can’t speak on the phone. He is constantly here. I’m actually making myself ill. I just can’t do it anymore

Do you have anyone at all you can speak to? Any family or friends at all anywhere?

Oh gosh, what a bastard. I don't even think there are words. Do you have a salary you can divert to a new account? Do you have anyone (family/ friends) who can help?
You can't let this colossal cunt win.

I have changed for my salary to get paid into a monzo account I have set up. I’m going to be trapped with not a penny for almost two weeks. The atmosphere here is horrific. I have no one to ask for help

Please try woman's aid. And maybe speak to your manager to see if you can get any kind of advance. You really need out of there.

Go into a police station.
Ask for the domestic abuse officer.
Call 999 from the loo.
You do not have to tolerate this.
Tell them he is holding you hostage having taken all your money.
You can do this.
Ring the police.
This is coercive control which is a serious crime.

@bananabeauplease ring the police and tell them what you’ve told us and that you need help to leave. He is holding you hostage and financially controlling you, that is a crime. Please please call both police and women’s aid and get yourself out of there.

yes please go to women's aid or the police. I'm so sorry this is happening

I totally agree. Please do this Bananabeau. I wish we could help you more! x

Sorry to hear this banana. I would echo others and contact the police when you are in work. He is controlling you it is a criminal offence. You will be supported by police and the third sector in your local area, you don not have to live like this.