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Oh Bananabeau you will be missed.

476 replies

Rainbows41 · 03/07/2025 20:06

I'm so sorry to see your post has been removed. You will be missed.
I refreshed my app daily in the hopes of seeing positive updates from you, and I'm sad you felt you needed to remove your post altogether.
I wish you well in your future and I sincerely hope you can fulfill your dreams.

You deserve to be happy.
💗

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TheFormidableMrsC · 25/08/2025 19:26

@BananaBoIm in Herts if that’s any use.

Perimama · 25/08/2025 19:27

Please go to the police and tell them your husband is withholding money from you.

BananaBo · 25/08/2025 19:31

I am in Scotland

notapizzaeater · 25/08/2025 19:31

We need to know where you are to see who can help x

Sussexswain · 25/08/2025 19:37

If you feel scared of your partner or if you are worried about someone you know, get in touch with Scotland’s 24 hour Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline on tel:0800 027 1234 0800 027 1234email [email protected] or visit sdafmh.org.uk. Message the text/WhatsApp service on tel:07401 288 595 07401 288 595

Scotland's Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline - Scotland's Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline

https://www.sdafmh.org.uk/en/

ThePoshUns · 25/08/2025 19:37

BB please go to the police. They are the only ones that can help you right now now.

TheFormidableMrsC · 25/08/2025 19:40

BananaBo · 25/08/2025 19:31

I am in Scotland

Ok helpful link posted by another MN’er in Scotland. You must go to the police. They will be able to
help you immediately. Good luck. So proud of you for making it out. You can do this and your life will be better. Keep going.

Notquitethetruth · 25/08/2025 19:41

Given your previous threads and your current situation do NOT post your location on here. Just contact one or two posters like @Rainbows41 who have already reached out. If you need additional support let someone else manage it for you on here. They an then liase with someone in your area.
Wishing you well and hope things get better soon. ♥️

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2025 19:44

Actually Scotland helps a lot !
as we can see where I live. it's in my username.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2025 19:48

so Scotland Police website gives this:

A list of organisations to contact if you or someone you know is being affected by domestic abuse.

which might help BB ?

WaitWhatWhatWait · 25/08/2025 19:51

Please go to the police @BananaBo @bananabeau - you're not wasting their time in case that's what you're worried about.

CoffeeBeansGalore · 25/08/2025 19:59

I highly doubt anyone has been offended. We just want you to be able to access the help you need asap.

Justkeepingplatesspinning · 25/08/2025 20:11

Another person in Scotland. If you don't have any money and nowhere to sleep tonight, go to the police station. They'll find you emergency accommodation I think.
Women's Aid in the morning, just pitch up on their doorstep when they open. As you work, you might find the cost of going into refuge is too steep. They can still help you to get the immediate ducks in a row before your salary comes through into your own account.
Happy for you to message me too.

Halo20 · 25/08/2025 20:37

Another poster in Scotland, feel free to message me OP although I agree with the other posters to contact the police and womans aid.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2025 20:45

Scotland helps, North, South, East or West would also help

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2025 20:45

Glasgow from Google

For Glasgow out-of-hours emergency housing, contact the Emergency Out of Hours Homelessness Service on 0800 838 502 or call the Simon Community Scotland helpline at 0800 027 7466 if you are rough sleeping. These services can provide assistance and temporary accommodation during evenings, weekends, and public holidays when the council's office is closed

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2025 20:47

Edinburgh from Google

For emergency housing out of hours in Edinburgh, call The City of Edinburgh Council's Emergency Housing Team at 0800 032 5968. If you're rough sleeping, you can contact Simon Community Scotland on their free helpline at 0808 178 2323. You can also contact Shelter Scotland's free helpline at 0808 800 4444 for advice if you're homeless or at risk of losing your home

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2025 20:48

Inverness from Google

For emergency housing in Inverness, contact the Highland Council's Homelessness Team on 01349 886691 for evenings, overnight, and weekends, or call 01349 886602 during weekdays. They have a legal duty to provide temporary accommodation if you are homeless and need a place to stay. If you can't get through or need further advice, you can also contact Shelter Scotland for support.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2025 20:50

Aberdeen from Google

For Aberdeen out-of-hours emergency housing, you should call the Aberdeen City Council Homelessness Helpline at 0800 917 6379, which provides a 24-hour emergency service, or the Out of Hours Social Work team on 0800 7315 520 for broader social work emergencies. You can also contact the council's Emergency Response Team on 03000 200 292 for issues involving an immediate threat to health, safety, or major property damage.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2025 20:52

Dundee

from Dundee Council website

You can call our 24 hour Homeless Advice Line 0800 633 5843 or 01382 432001 from a mobile.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2025 20:55

Perth

from Google

To find out-of-hours emergency housing in Perth, you should contact the Perth & Kinross Council using their out-of-hours emergency service number, 0800 917 0708. This 24/7 service is available to help you if you become, or are at risk of becoming, homeless.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2025 20:55

Stirling

from Google

To find out-of-hours emergency housing in Stirling, you should contact Stirling Council directly by calling 01786 404040. This phone number provides a 24/7 service for homelessness inquiries and applications, and for situations outside of their standard business hours, it will connect you to the appropriate team for support.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2025 20:57

Dunfermline

from Google

To access out of hours emergency housing in Dunfermline, call Fife Council's Homelessness Emergency Number at 0800 028 6231. This service is available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, to help people who are homeless or at risk of becoming homeless in the Fife area, including Dunfermline. They can arrange temporary accommodation and provide advice and support to prevent homelessness

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2025 20:59

@bananabeau @BananaBo

Hopefully one of the above locations helps ?

Billybagpuss · 26/08/2025 05:29

If @bananabeau was suspended for asking for help I wonder if mn have also blocked @BananaBo too for duplicating an account.

Hope everything is ok.

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