Thai massage stag do trip

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Hello all
so my OH just retuned from a Portuguese stag do weekend . I was worried in the usual sense - too much booze sun etc but he is a very trustworthy man ( I hope I think ) However 10 mins of his return back to uk he told me how after a 10 hour day drinking sesh he ended up having a Thai massage ( legs only in his boxer shorts ) I was abit taken aback really as think massage parlour happy ending etc . I didn’t really push anymore details but then spent ages with wild thoughts In my head - why was he so quick to say it ? Maybe scared I’d hear he went somewhere like that from someone else ? Why go drunk when I know he can’t remember what he does sometimes in that state ? Plus he looked a wee but sheepish .
i don’t want this to be a huge issue ( he goes away loads on lads trips and I’ve worked so hard on my anxiety / insecurity and trust issue from past ) but also don’t want this to eat away at me
any similar experiences or what I could do - I don’t want any details pics of the weekend as don’t want to feel like the noisy partner
x

I feel sorry for the bride and groom if this is going to be a topic of conversation on their wedding day.

That was rather the point.

Have a look at his card info if you can and see how much he paid. Could be a giveaway.

Why don't you set up a burner email account and email the massage place and ask if they provide 'extra services'.

Thai massage is style and you keep on loose fitting clothing or they provide it and move you body around.

its usually done with no oils. And is quite robust and not sexy

quite difficult to do if very drunk. Hed
probably vom
maybe he thought it was a sexy place and it wasnt and he got embarrassed

maybe when he says ‘Thai massage’ he means a massage carried out by an East Asian lady because he definitely didn’t get a proper Thai massage, I think that’s pretty clear

Is he the sort of bloke that normally goes for massages? Is the groom? What have the wives/ girlfriends of his mates said about it?

Just ask casually how much it cost. Then ask to see his credit card statement or cash withdrawal. That will tell you if he paid for a happy ending

If I was you though I’d consider what I’m going to do with that information beforehand. If you’re not going to leave him, do you really want to know for sure that he did?