Look at your own words.
Stuck on holiday with my partner and I am dreading him waking up and sulking ... I am just dreading the day
This is just not how relationships are supposed to be. And you're on holiday, too.
he will be quiet all day unless someone else speaks to him in which case he will be pleasant, but he will be snappy and cold with me
Putting on a fake front so everyone believes he's one thing - but you know he's something else. And of course nobody will believe you.
We are camping and he will make it clear he is very very cross with me ... he will ruin the day with sulking I know what he is like and then deny it ... I think he wants me to know he is terribly cross indeed and try and fix it for him
Ruining nice occasions is absolutely how they operate. You're walking on eggshells, aren't you? Everything you say or do is wrong?
he is also cross because I didn’t want to have sex last night as he was being so horrible
Too many men think women and girls are things. Not quite human. There to service them - and when the service isn't forthcoming, the domestic appliance has failed.
he also said that as we were passing somewhere it was my special place as it was the land of the slags and then said it didn’t count as he was joking
Insults, the vilest misogynistic tropes - and then the gaslighting. But it's only banter. Can't you take a joke? You know what you're like.
he always puts me down about being scatty but I counter act this by having a back up phone and options to get into my email account if I got locked out
Belittling, insults about your intelligence and capability in the face of all the evidence YOU are the organised one. More gaslighting.
everything is down to me anyway I have booked and planned everything he won’t even use his card out here so he has to transfer me some money when he gets back
Again, the 'women are domestic appliances' thing in action. The cash machine, the organisation chart, the project manager.
How would you feel if it were your mum, sister, daughter, friend saying this to you?
Read this, then write down everything he's done since you've been together.
https://www.womens-aid.org.uk/types-of-domestic-abuse
Some quotes:
'Emotional blackmail can be used to try and make the woman feel guilty by using emotional outbursts, sulking
Verbal abuse can involve ... name calling or the use of derogatory language
Psychological abuse can include humiliation, diminishing or embarrassing the woman and isolating her from her friends and family.'
Are you seeing it yet, OP?