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How would you feel if a guy asked what size you are?

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forestflies · 02/05/2025 21:53

So I'm talking to a guy, we both like each other, and are just in the early stages. No date/kiss/intimacy. But we text daily and see each other often. There's an age gap, for context.

Earlier this week when texting he made it clear he liked my "curvy figure" and said it's what he goes for. He said I was hot and he does look at my body.

When speaking with him today in person he said he did have a question but didn't know if it would be inappropriate. I prodded as he brought it up so he may as well say it. And he asked "what size" then looked me up and down. It threw me off, and I didn't really answer. He guessed a size (a size larger than I am), and said he almost guessed a size above that, so he was thinking two sizes larger than I am. I was a bit taken back, and didn't know what to make of it. I asked why he wanted to know and he said it was just curiosity. How would you react to this? Do I let it go?

OP posts:
SwisswolvesLilley · 06/05/2025 23:27

“It puts the lotion in the basket”..

😱

Thatsthebottomline · 07/05/2025 11:48

forestflies · 02/05/2025 21:53

So I'm talking to a guy, we both like each other, and are just in the early stages. No date/kiss/intimacy. But we text daily and see each other often. There's an age gap, for context.

Earlier this week when texting he made it clear he liked my "curvy figure" and said it's what he goes for. He said I was hot and he does look at my body.

When speaking with him today in person he said he did have a question but didn't know if it would be inappropriate. I prodded as he brought it up so he may as well say it. And he asked "what size" then looked me up and down. It threw me off, and I didn't really answer. He guessed a size (a size larger than I am), and said he almost guessed a size above that, so he was thinking two sizes larger than I am. I was a bit taken back, and didn't know what to make of it. I asked why he wanted to know and he said it was just curiosity. How would you react to this? Do I let it go?

The rules for dating here are really simple - a man should never ask a a lady her size. It is naturally fine for a woman to be any size she wants, the only problem is the other way round.

\In order for everything to be peachy your man should not be under six foot, he should not, in any circumstances be fat and he should own his houses with pots and pots of cash.

if he doesn’t pick you up in a Bentley, let him down gently. Know your worth, naturally his worth is nothing.

Lolalaboucheridesagain · 09/05/2025 08:53

Eww so creepy. This guy is going to be terrible for your self esteem. Run a mile!!

ruddygreattiger · 09/05/2025 09:38

I would genuinely ask his dick size and say anything less than a firm 8 inches is inadequate.

But then I'm probably older than you and don't tolerate bs from mediocre men. Any negging is reciprocated.

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