When I asked him what the dream was about, he said it was spicy and laughed
Backstory: I dated this guy last summer, then it turned into friends with benefits. (we have had sex) We were not getting along at all.
And he ended things with me in January and said he did not want to be intimate anymore because of how I had treated him. But he would not dismiss the possibility of us being together in the future. Yet he needed to find his own way in life. And he did not want me to wait around for him.
But he and I have still been talking a little.
And when I messaged him last week, saying this.
I think we met at a time when neither of us was truly ready for a long-term commitment, and we needed time apart to grow. I just feel like the timing wasn’t right for us. That’s why I won’t rule out being with you someday, regardless of who I meet. I don’t want you to think I’ll ever forget about you. (he loved reacted this message).
And then he replied with this
You actually appeared in my dream last night. Hope you’re having a good week so far.
I asked him what the dream was about, and he said it was spicy.
I replied, telling him I was flattered that I had made it into his dreams, and he loved that message.