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Husband has said he wants me to die, I have been diagnosed with cancer

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Paperbear · 16/02/2025 20:09

My husband has a very very vicious tongue. He has it in all aspects of life and other family members on his side have it too.
I accepted this side of his years ago and made a joke of it to family and friends over the years because he has no filter but I've now been diagnosed with cancer and he has said alot of horrible things over the last few weeks. I do think our marriage is over as I think it has crossed a line.

The trouble is I've been a stay at home mum to our youngest for the last 4 years before school as we decided I should do that instead of work.

This has left me very vulnerable as I don't have an income and my circle of friends closed up especially around covid and shortly after and I was relying on my husband to help me with chemotherapy appointment and sorting th children out together. I have 6 months of treatment ahead and I'm just crying constantly because I don't feel any door is open for me right now. Any advice would be appreciated.

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SmallDFartyCarNRG · 13/10/2026 09:27

PetulaGordeno · 13/10/2026 08:55

Thread is over 18 months old.

It's so annoying when this happens, esp with really long ones!

OMGDidYouSayThat · 13/10/2026 12:08

I mean this in the nicest possible way, i hope he gets hit by a fng bus! Heartless b**d.

Fuckmyliferightnow · 14/10/2026 07:17

I didn’t even clock the date. Blush

OMGDidYouSayThat · 14/10/2026 20:36

Fuckmyliferightnow · 14/10/2026 07:17

I didn’t even clock the date. Blush

Me neither, i wish they’d tidy up the old threads.

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